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writes:Dear CupidMy bf abuses me verbally often. Most of the time ill never fight over it. 2 days before i got so pissed off when he started abusing me mentally, hence we had a fight. He told me not to call him and i didnt. He called me yesterday (just 1 single call) and i didnt pick up or return his call. After that he didnt call me till now. I dont want to break down and call him. Cause thats how it usually happens, i have to tell him sorry even for his faults. Today is valentines day, atleast he should send me a message or call me right. Do you think what i am doing is right, do i need to call him or wait for his call? Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): You need to love your self enough to realise that this man doesn't deserve you. He verbally abuses you and you still want to be with him? Whats wrong with this picture?
Listen...No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. if you are going to continue allowing him to hurt you and reward his horrid behavior by chasing him even harder when he disrespects you and treats you bad, of course he will treat you worse! People will walk all over you if you let him. Forget about waiting for his call. Move on and meet other men. You are worth it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): Text him tommorow, and tell him you are sick of his abuse. Then to stop or go take a hike. For good.You don;t need that. Leave him if you can find the strength.x
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (14 February 2011):
 wait for him to call, and when he doesn't, you can go nuts at him for not bothering to call you on valentines.
It's another reason to dump his sorry arse...
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reader, SusieQ79 +, writes (14 February 2011):
If he is treating you like that, you shouldn't even be with him.No woman should have to pander to a man who talks to her like that. No man or woman should feel that they have to lie down and take it.Valentine's Day or not, you will constantly expect more from him than he is prepared to give. And he knows you will always come running back and continue to treat you badly.Get him out of your life and find a good man who deserves you.
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