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writes:I still cant get over my ex !! :( It's been so many months now..and I still end up thinking about him all the time. I dont know what to do :( :( :(
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reader, sneha_1492 +, writes (25 November 2010):
sneha_1492 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much Bella. Really. Thanks a ton sweety :)
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reader, Bella555  +, writes (25 November 2010):
Sneha, you are totally welcome. I hope things go your way and happiness ensues for you both. Trust yourself and that you deserve to be loved and treated well, and don't accept any less!
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reader, sneha_1492 +, writes (24 November 2010):
sneha_1492 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you SO much Bella !! That really did help me. It really is funny how we still tend to love them despite everything. He sent me a mail today as well, asking how i am and for my number. But I think I'll take some time off and think about it. Thank you so much sweety ! :)
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reader, Bella555 +, writes (24 November 2010):
Sneha, your situation sounds oddly similar to what I've suffered. My former relationship was/is long distance, and there were repeated cycles of contact, interest, and silence. Just waiting for an email or call was daily torture. I attributed his weird behavior to depression and indecision, and perhaps those were factors, but I have found out he was pursuing someone else while keeping me around. For your sake, I hope that is not the case, and I am not assuming it is. Perhaps you should take time for yourself, and let a few of his messages fall by the wayside while you decide what you would truly like with him. You obviously still love him, and I understand completely, as I still love my ex, though he's with another. It's funny how the love stays with us, despite the pain and adversity. Give yourself a little space, don't respond to him straightaway, and perhaps his intentions will become clearer.
I truly hope you get what you want from this situation, and I wish you all the best!
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reader, sneha_1492 +, writes (23 November 2010):
sneha_1492 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't know if he's moved on, but he does send me mails where he says that he misses me, and wants me to call him. I don't know if I should. Because this has happened before as well. We'll break up and then the same thing happens and when we patch up he starts ignoring me all over. We have a Long distance relationship, so that adds onto to the whole problem.
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reader, Bella555 +, writes (23 November 2010):
I don't know how helpful this is, but I totally understand. My ex occupies my thoughts 24/7. It is very detrimental to my productivity, and takes serious energy away from all my pursuits.
What would you like to do? I haven't read your other questions, but has your ex moved on? Are you trying to forget him, or are you hoping to get back together?
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reader, sneha_1492 +, writes (22 November 2010):
sneha_1492 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe did send me a mail some time back. Saying that he misses me and stuff. I've posted that in my other questions.
And yes we did have alot of plans for the future :( I just keep thinking about that and all the moments we've spent together. Ughhh this is so bad ! :(
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (21 November 2010):
 Sometimes lingering breakups are less about the ex and more about the envisioned future you had with them in your mind... so for my own curiosity, did you have plans to marry this ex of yours?
If yes, then I hate to use the old cliche line, but nothing says it better...
"There are PLENTY of fish in the sea."
More fish than you could ever kiss in your lifetime and MANY better catches than your ex at the end of the day.
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