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writes: I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We get along great. The only problem is that he has 2 children with his ex-girlfriend. During the first 3 months that we were going out he denied the fact that he had children and told me very little about his ex-girlfriend. I have accepted the fact that he has children and had lied to me for 3 months. He was together with his ex for 10 years; they lived together and their children were planned. What bothers me is that they still do things as a family. They spend holidays together, he goes over to her place and makes dinner for them, he pays for her to do stuff, and they go out for family activities. He assures me there is nothing between him and his ex, but it is hard to believe him because he lied to me about them for 3 months. Am I just being insecure or is there really something between him and his "ex-girlfriend"?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2005): lying is not acceptable, however, being a father of three myself, he may be making dinner for the kids and not the ex. she is only an ends to the means, besides, a father and a mother that get along is the best thing for children. as far as the lying goes, a lot of single men worry about not finding a partner when he has children.
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