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female
age
30-35,
*lexS
writes:Well, ive just split with my boyfriend which sadly only lasted 1 week and 4 days. I still have feelings for him. Before we got together he told me that he didnt wanna treat me badly like the other guys did, and how i deserved to be happy and he could give me what i wanted, i was so happy i was so good to him during that week, but that soon changed when we split. I am confussed. The day before we split he told me how he was scared after a week that his feelings might change about me and how he couldnt trust me when i go to university next year and how he felt like he was hurting me and how he could hurt me. He couldnt look me in the eye seriously anymore. After the break-up we hadnt spoke for almost a week but i still wanted to be friens so i braved up and made convosation, this went horribly wrong,as at the start it went well he was happy to talk then oddly he switched and he said he didnt want to be friends, it would always be awkward forever and how being friends with him makes him feel like iam implying he was a idiot for leaving me. I think theres another reason behind the split and it upsets me, why do i always get played around by guys, or am i doing something wrong?
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reader, AlexS +, writes (11 October 2010):
AlexS is verified as being by the original poster of the question Hi Dorithy, he knew i had been treated badly in the past, which i have had been though some very bad experiences with guys and being rough etc. The university i have chosen is only next door to the school he goes to i would see him simular amount i think :), thankyou ever so much advise reaally helped!! And Anonymous ... ive been told by his friends he did use me for sex. we didnt have it thought luckily maybe it was just rumours xxxxx
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (10 October 2010):
Hi there. He mightn't have been ready for a relationship.
Because he knows you are going away to university next year, perhaps he doesn't want to get emotionally involved with you because of that. If he did, then he would have to say goodbye next year.
One week and 4 days, is not very long in a relationship.
Perhaps he has some peer pressure from his friends, who don't have girlfriends. They might have pursuaded him against having a girlfriend.
Has other guys treated you badly before? Or has he just assumed that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2010): He was just using you for sex.
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