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writes:Hi everybody! I and my boyfriend are been together for 2 yrs and I just found out recently that he has already a girlfriend before me and they're still together. On top of that he has other women that he sees once in a while... I found out also that 3 months after we have the relationship he has four girlfriends to the country where he goes as he travel there once a year and stay there for 3 to 4 months and he keep in touch to everybody often so nobody knows that he has lots of girlfriends as he's sweet... he send emails to everybody saying that he misses and love them that much... Just out that 2 days ago and hurts me a lot don't know what to do?I spoke to him and tell him that I know everything what he does? He admitted everything, he apologized and he told that the decision is mine... He said that he realized that I loved him that much and he do care and love at me as well... If ever I decided to be with him then he'll brake to all his girlfriends... Right now I'm too upset... Don't know what do, pls help me but I still I love him... Reply to this Question
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reader, based51  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 This is a man who will never change. Even if he chooses to make you his wife he will still cheat on you. There are some men that will always always always take every opportunity they have to cheat. If you decide to stay with him, you should know and accept that he will never be faithful to you. If you feel you can't live with that then you need to get rid of him.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (8 April 2011):
The obvious thing to do is dump him, he isn't going to just stop seeing these other girls no matter how much he makes u believe that.He said the decision is yours, the sensible one is to go your separate ways.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (8 April 2011):
 He will not break things off with the other women. Don't for one second think he will. It's all lies, all of it. He doesn't love you, or them, he's using all of you. Get away from this guy as soon as you possibly can.
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