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writes:see there is this boy and we had a "thing" for about a year in a half. we never offically dated but we had really strong feelings for each other and it got to a point where we told each other we loved one another which i believe we really do. well he ended things with this girl came along. shes a senior and im a sophomore and hes a junior. well she has slept with alot of guys and stuff we'll this boy and that girl got together. shes really controlling and lies to him alot but he doesnt believe anything about what people say to him. we stopped talking for a while beacuse it was just to hard for me. i saw him 4 months later at his baseball game i went to because my bestfriend goes to his school. later that night we had a really deep converstaion and he admitted that he still liked me and he missed me. he tells me he wont have sex with her but he wants to have sex with me. he always feels guilty talking about it with me but he still does it. he always tells me he misses me and stuff but his gf forbids him to talk to me or anything. he admitted that after 6 months of dating this girl he still has feelings for me but i dont know what to do because he wont break up with her but i still have strong feelings for him and he says he does for me so someone pleaseee helppppp meeeeeeeee! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): If you have such strong feelings for him and still want to be with him then it's probably best for you to hang in there. The chances are if you try and forget about him you won't be able too.
This boy and his girlfriend will have to break up eventually because from what you've said, their reltaionship isn't very strong and she is controlling of him. So if she finds someone else or something like that she probably would just dump him. But if this boy still has strong feelings for you why is he still with her?
But if you trust him and he's said that he still likes you and misses you, then hopefully you too will end up back together one day :)
Hope I have been of some help! Keep us posted!
xx Hope xx
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