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male
age
36-40,
*uza2k3
writes:hi After 4 months my ex girlfriend that broke up a four year relationship with me sent an sms asking me if i knew the price of a good laptop. i didn't reply her, after one hour she sent another sms saying "i sent you a message but you didn't reply, if we are not dating again doesn't mean that we are not friends, you are still me very good and cherished friend".. I still haven't replied her. She broke up the relationship because she feels am not ready for marriage.The trauma still burns my heart whenever i remember how i begged and tried to win back the relationship 4 months ago, but i later discovered she was dating another guy older than me..I got some facts about her new boyfriend as a player, but i guess she doesn't know about this yet. Am very confused , what does she want from me?
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (11 June 2013):
 Either continue to ignore her or send her a brusque message reminding her that you are not together and not friends. The only problem with the latter is that you are then engaging with her and she may take your response as a sign that you are willing to talk about it. She broke your heart and she is not your friend. Why is she asking you about laptops? It's anyone's guess. Maybe it's an excuse to get close to you again. Maybe she genuinely wants to know how much a laptop costs and can't think of anyone other than her ex, whom she dumped and left heartbroken, in which case she is a total idiot. Having thought about it a little bit, I would stick with ignoring her. Delete her messages, and if she sends any more, delete them right away. I wouldn't even bother reading them to be honest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2013): Send her a text and tell her that you are not a salesman and any woman who would treat 'a good and cherished' friend like a personal shopper after not speaking for 4 months is not a friend of yours.
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