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writes: There was this guy I was with in my college time, he used to visit me many times so I thought he was interested in me and started visiting and thereby got intimate but the thing is for about three years now since we've been in this relationship he has never said Ilove you is it that he doesnt like me or I gave myself so cheap for him? And should I back out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for the concern shared and hope to try them
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reader, Duckyhelp  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 It depends if this guy finds it hard to show is emotions and express himself. After 3 years he will have strong feelings for you. Try do something nice like a romantic dinner, candles ect and tell him how you feel, if you do love him.
However before that think about the two possible outcomes:
1) He says he loves you back, and you feel happy.
2) He doesnt say it back cause he doesnt feel the same. Do you want to stay and try or would you want to move away from him so that you have a chance to find someone who does love you?
I wish you the best of luck! :)
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reader, samaira  +, writes (19 May 2012):
you need to express yourself and confess it to him that you have feelings. But donot act like someone who is desperate to get into a relationship. If doesn't responds or discourages your feelings, you can back off. But atleast you wouldn't feel that you didn't give it a short.
Hope it helps.
Take care!!
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (19 May 2012):
 Do you love him? Have you told him that you love him? Do you want him to be in love with you? He must like you at least, to be still around after three years. You need to communicate with the guy, to know anymore, don't assume anything, ask. Good luck.
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