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writes:Okay so me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and I just feel like I'm falling head over heels for him, I think I love him. The problem is, I don't know how to say you know I love you. I'm never the one to make the first move or anything so I'm afraid if I say I love you it'll scare him away. So what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): reconsider if ur actually in love or not. if u strongly feel u are, start by small statements that i really missed u, and cranberry 28's advice seems worth a try! i love ur eyes, anything! see how he reacts, but does he ever say he loves you? and about kurtyz's advice, i feel girls feel the same too! they would rather be told that they are loved than say it themselves. ~zinz
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reader, cranberry28  +, writes (20 July 2009):
I would begin with small steps and say something like "I just LOVE the way you do X/the way you laugh/your sense of humour" and see how he reacts to that!
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reader, Nala19 +, writes (20 July 2009):
 I had the same issue,came out funny when I tried telling a boyfriend.Hun don't be scared,one day it will slip out without no hesitation.Takes time,your moment will come.
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reader, kurtyz +, writes (20 July 2009):
 well as a guy I would actually like to be told that someone loves me but what you could try is saying to him do you love me?? and if he says yes then you know you are all right plus he cant be scared of if you simply ask him if he loves you.
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