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writes: So my girlfriend is a bit kinky, and wants to get a vibrator. I thought I'd get her one for fun, but I dont know what to get. I'd ask her, but that would spoil the surprise. They all seem to be pretty small with all kinds of "appendages", or very, very large and pretty simple. I tend to think she'd like a larger one. Not a monster, but maybe an 8" one. The smaller ones are way smaller than me and very slender, so I dont see how that could be pleasurable. Why do they even make 4, 5 and 6 inch vibes? Isn't that a bit small to satisfy? Are the little bullet vibes any good? What do you women like?thx
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reader, sarahrose20  +, writes (16 September 2010):
i have a 4 5 inch vibrator and i love it even though my boyfriend is larger as well. i find with a bigger one it hurts because its hard your penis gives a little. i find penatration with a vibrator is not as effective as clitoris stimulation. i would suggest buying a set. theres ones you can get that have two peices one for the clit and the actual vibrator for the inside. also make sure you are gentle at first when using it. my boyfriend gets too carried away sometimes and ends up hurting me. make sure the angle is right as well then slowly graduate the speed faster so you dont hurt her
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reader, person12345  +, writes (15 September 2010):
 The tiny ones are bullets and non-insertable. Also, most women don't want a HUGE one. Pain in the butt, er, vagina to deal with. 6 inches is more than enough, especially seeing as we barely have nerve endings in there. Think about which things you do to her that she likes. Does she like you to only focus on her clitoris (that would mean a powerful bullet is the best)? Does she like a little G-spot play (then get one with a little curve in it specially for the G-spot)? If you want to get her something that you can use together or apart that is super versatile (and doubles as a back massager) that a lot of people think is the most crazy powerful versatile sex toy ever made (and durable), then you might want to invest in a Hitachi Magic Wand. I've never used one personally, but pretty much every sex toy reviewer on the face of the Earth recommends them and it has crazy good reviews on all the sites. If you don't want to shell out $50 (about what it costs on Amazon) Doc Johnson is a good brand. And drugstore.com and amazon have extensive reviews, I highly recommend reading reviews.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Actually most of the women on here report that 6 or 7 inches is what they prefer. That aside, the Rabbit is a classic and a favorite of a lot of women I've talked to about it. The combination of vaginal and clitoral stimulation is pretty amazing I'm told.
The smaller vibes are good because they can be used a little more liberally. Maybe she wants to try anal, but you're too big. What if she uses a smaller vibrator? You see where I'm going with that I'm sure.
I'd suggest talking to her, or instead of surprising her with it, surprise her with a trip to the porn store and when you get there tell her you want to buy her a toy of her choosing. Have fun!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 September 2010):
 Silver bullet is you want to be basic or the rabbit for a little more options. I had one that had all the bells and whistles, the twisting beads, 5 different speeds and rotations, and the little animal flicking your clitoris..but I always seemed to go back the basic. It's a personal preference really. To me it's all about the vibration and stimulation.
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