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30-35,
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writes:I spent a long time getting over a bad break up which hurt me alot and I still can't think about. I've recently met someone at a party; we hit it off and now we've been texting. He wants to meet me, but the problem is I'm terrified of what other people will say about me getting into a new relationship, as people don't see me as that kind of person anymore. Not just that, but because we hit it off at this party i'm scared he thinks im easy and only good for one thing. I can't seem to let all of this go and just go with the flow, and its really upsetting me that I find it this hard just to think about meeting somebody. Any advice?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 February 2010):
So agree to meet him, but take it slow. Just go out for a drink and start to get to know him. Take your time over it. Ask him about himself and let him ask you questions too. You'll regret not going out if you find out he is a good guy and wouldn't have hurt you. You have nothing to lose by meeting. Clearly if he wants sex after the first few dates then beware. But other than that, don't worry. And no one will judge you for dating either, so don't worry about that.
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