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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been involved in an affair with an man I've known for over a year now. I am so attached to him, but when I rationalize it I realize I'm not in love with him. It's more like an addiction... and I want to break free from this.I've tried to stop contact but I always find myself calling him again. I miss hearing his voice and he seems to be in love with me..Help??
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 February 2010):
Delete his number, delete his email. Delete everything. The moment you get a call from him, tell him it's over and put the phone down and delete the number again. I assume he's the one that's married and you're not. If that's the case, he is not in love with you and is using you. If you are married and he is not, he still doesn't love you and is still using you. And if you are both married or in relationships, he's still using you. Basically, he's using you for nothing more than sex. Think he's in love with you? Think again. If he was, he would be with you no matter what. Don't be used by him, or in ten years when you're still alone and he has sucked the life out of you, you'll really regret it all. You can be a nobody to him, or a somebody to another man.
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