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*andomSmileys
writes:Ok, so I have a long distance boyfriend, lets call him A. I also have a best friend who is a guy from my city - B.So I fell for B soon after meeting him, but he gave me mixed signals, so I moved on and met A. I started going out with A, even though I still had feelings for B, who would go out of his way to call me every night for two hours whereas A would speak to me whenever he could be bothered.Then I told B about A, and he got upset and said that I had broke his heart, and he told me that if A didn't treat me like a queen he wasn't good enough for me. Whenever I think I can tell B that I still have feelings for him, he brings A up so I change the subject.What should I do? I don't want to string A along, but I don't know if I want to break up with him for B if B was only saying that because he wants something he cant have?(Ps. Sorry its so long, but I need people who answer to know the story.)
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reader, midnightsky63 +, writes (17 January 2011):
thats okay :) hope i've helped :)
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reader, RandomSmileys +, writes (16 January 2011):
RandomSmileys is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Midnightsky63 I'll try that, thanks :)
I once came up with over 128 things I love about B..
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reader, ginalouise  +, writes (16 January 2011):
If you love B, then it's B. dont make the same nmistake i did.
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reader, midnightsky63 +, writes (16 January 2011):
Here's a few things to help make your decision:How often do you see you long distance boyfriend?How happy does your boyfriend make you?How happy does B make you?You could write a list on everything you like about your boyfriend and everything you like about B and then everything bad about them and make a decision from there.Usually if a guy cries over a girl it means they really do love them. I know this from previous relationships.
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