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writes:How do i tell my best friend that the relationship she is trying to create with this "hockey player" is an unhealthy obsession?hi... most of you have probably seen the posts on here about the girl who is trying to get in contact with the hockey player. Well she's my best friend, and i know the guy very well too.... he's not interested in her but she doesn't seem to get it and wont give up on trying to get him. How am i supposed to tell her it's unhealthy and never going to happen without hurting her feelings?xoxo Penalty
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2007): Well, the chances are good she'll read your posting on this site, and she'll figure it all out. If she doesn't read it, you should tell her the truth. Her feelings will likely be hurt but we need good friends in our life, to tell us things we don't want to hear, sometimes. Depending on her temperament and maturity, she might be thankful you told her and saved her a lot of future embarrassment. Or she might not listen to you, so in which case, she will have to hear it from him. If I was her, I'd rather hear it from someone who genuinely loved me such as a friend, like yourself. Good luck dear.
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