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writes:my question is you been dating a little while, the person you had been dating and wants to be marry and wants to start a family soon because she older and her parents are getting old 70 you like her but she puting pressure on you . you get married but i realized i am not in love with her as she is in love with me. you do it because you been alone all your life with no dates, you think you going to get closer with time 7 yrs gone bye we adoted a child but still not in love with her don't what to live a lie no more what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Let her go. Let her move on with her life. It is not fair that she thinks your feelings are being reciprocated when they are not. It is a waste of her time and her life, and yours. Life is too short for either of you not to be happy.
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reader, rolfen  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 Oh man. Maybe you really love her. What is love anyway. I say you do not think too much about her and concentrate on the other things in your life. Good luck!
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reader, StillLoving  +, writes (5 January 2011):
Why don't you try to get closer with her? Doing something both of you like, together. Why don't you learn to make her a massage, or why don't you ask her to be more careful and concerned about what you feel? And ultimately, if it doesn't work, why don't you almost try speaking a lot more about your life? It seems like you live on different planets.
Try to share more of your personality, and try to know more of her, too. Are you sure she loves you?
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reader, petina1  +, writes (5 January 2011):
 I would have said the best thing to do would have been to separate but now i see you ve adopted a child. That in itself is not good. Do y our duty by the child and when the child leaves home then you could do the same.
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