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writes:Hi there everyone,I will try and keep this short, and if it does not give you enough information please let me know.Here goes, i started a relationship with an old school friend, we were both unattached apart from the fact she had just come out of a long term relationship, it was great we hit it off straight away and i took my time developing our friendship, she did not want to rush into another relatioship, that was Sept 2010, by Christmas we had both fallen for each other big time, the feelings she had for me surprised and scared her a little bit, that is what love does to you. grabs you and turns your world upside down, we felt like a couple of 18 yr olds, how many times has that been said.Anyway cutting a long story short, by August our friendship took a big knock she said it was not me that she wanted time on her own, i told her i understood i did not want to finish but respected her wishes, we are still friends but here is the big question!!After 6 months i am still totally in love with her, call me daft and soppy, but the feelings i have for her are as strong as ever, in a state of denial perhaps, but i am moving on in my life so why everyday is she in my thoughts, this beast called love is not giving up, so any ideas etc would be much appreciated.Thank you for taking the time to read this.
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reader, daddylonglegs +, writes (18 January 2012):
daddylonglegs is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice i do appreciate it, i will keep you posted on the outcome
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2012): Would it be possible for you both to get in contact again? Is she still single? Perhaps you could call her and ask to meet up, then tell her you missed having her in you life. Maybe, as you said she just got scared because of what she was feeling, especially if she was just out of a relationship.
In my opinion 6 months is reasonable time for space and she should be either willing to take things to the next level or be up front and honest if she doesn't. If she is still apprehensive, then make a conscious effort to really forget about her completely, for your own sake, you can't wait forever.
Pluck up the courage and give her a call, if she really fell in love with you she would not be able to move on so soon. For all you know she probably thinks about you too, its worth a try, right?!
Good luck.x
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