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writes:I'm 17 and was involved with a married man before like when I was 15 and again when I was 16 and now once again I kissed this other married guy and again started a friendship with another married guy, ya I know I'm playing with fire. He asked me what I wanted from him relationship-wise, I'm not sure. We've never been physical yet. I think I want to be. Please give me strength!!!! As weird as this may sound, he's the only sane person in my life and who cares about me when he's with me--fake or not. Aaaah! Help me??
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 I'm sorry to hear about your father..that gives a little insight as to why you are interested in married men. However, these men aren't here to be your daddy. They're preying on you because you're young, fresh, "innocent", and naive. They will use you to get what you want then drop you like loose change.
You're 16-17, you've barely lived your life. I didn't find "the one" until I was 24.
Your "one" is most definitely NOT a married man, he's already another woman's "one".
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy father died when I was nine years old. This guy claims to be in his 30's. My boyfriend and I broke up lastnight now I feel I need him more than ever. Can't stop thinking about him. Ill never find thr one for me, I just know it.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 March 2011):
Sad, 16-17 is too young to be a potential home wrecker.
Let me put it this way, if you were married would you want some young teenage girl trying to kiss and get physical with your husband? No. Have some respect for this married man's wife (even if he doesn't). Stay away from married men.
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 You can't find the help you need here!
You need to talk to a professional counsellor.
Your setting yourself up to be a plaything for abusive married men.
Abusive in the sense that they're lying and cheating on their wives and families, and putting same at risk.
Abusive to you in the sense that they're treating you as nothing more than a young, hot, little sex toy.
No matter what they tell you!
They'll say what ever they think you want to hear, just to get into your hot, little girly panties!
Your setting yourself up for a life of heartbreak, tears,
and a very "BAD" reputation!
You'll never really know if someone truly loves you or it's for the sex, you so freely have to offer.
It looks to me as though your self esteem is at an all time low. It also sounds like you have some unresolved "father issues".
Please, seek out a counsellor and start to work on making better choices, before your life "Blows up in your face".
I wish you all the luck in the world, and better choices for your life in the future!
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reader, Lynlan.nhi  +, writes (12 March 2011):
15..16 years old. This may sound harsh but do you know the definition of a pedophile? How did you meet these men and for how long? You're not only playing with fire but pouring gasoline in it. He may be caring and make you feel secured when you're down, but do you really know his motive? Married man...how old is he exactly? Look for friends your age. Built a real relationship from there. Perhaps, for some really odd chance he's not a bad person but you're interfering with another relationship here. For something that you're not so sure if it's stable or not, don't even think about starting a physical relationship. You'll regret it. So back away as fast as possible.
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