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*8ing4luv
writes:Please help! Confused.com. Basically i've been friends with this guy for over 10yrs. In the last 4yrs, we kind of made it clear how we felt for one another. We've had sex about 6times, but always remained friends.In the last 2yrs our friendship has fizzled. We use to call each other all the time, we hardly now. About 7mnths ago, i txt him telling him how i feel. (which was a lot for me to do) He did'nt reply. When i last saw him things were fine normal. I called him, he never returned my call, i txted him he never txt back, so i deleted his number, to stop contacting him and it seemed he was taking the piss out of me. I havent heard from him since. One of my friends told me he was going to Jamaica for 2months (helping his dad do some work on their land), all of a sudden the feelings came back and i started missing him, having thoughts that when he returns he'll be married, engaged, expecting a child. To cut a long story short, out of the blue he calls me from Jamaica!! It was a short conversation, he said hes gonna call me back 2mo. I dont know how to feel, i dont understand why now he wants to call. I dont think he realises how i'm feeling. After the phone call i got a little emotional, and teary (i dont know why) Is he playing games, or does he feel the same. This has been going on for too long . . . help plz
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reader, softsyrup +, writes (12 December 2011):
Usually, I'd think it had been going on for too long for him to have feelings for you, especially after you told him how you felt, and wouldn't think he was interested.
BUT. See how this promised phone calls goes tomorrow. If he phones, see what he says and take it from there.
If he doesn't phone, I think try and forget about him, as hard as it is, and move on.
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reader, W8ing4luv +, writes (11 December 2011):
W8ing4luv is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks wordlywise. Its now a waiting game for his phone call.
I'm finding it hard too, because the WHOLE time when we were not in contact, i've been hurting and then when it suits him. He decides to contact me when he aint even in the country!!
Our conversation was brief, so i could'nt say anything (let alone of the shock). But like you said, wait for the call.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2011): As you clearly feel for him and miss him, I would wait for his phone call and see what he has to say.Then take it from there.
The fact he called you from Jamaica he must have been thinking about you, depends what he said in the call though, what his explanation was for ringing you after so long.
All you can do is wait till tomorrow.
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