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How can you move on from someone you've been with for years?

Q.   This may be long so bare with me. Sorry in advance for it being long. After five years of being together my now ex bf broke up with me a week ago. We;ve had our share of problems over the past 5 years but we've managed to over come them. The ...

A.   12 January 2014: I was seeing my ex for five years too and we broke up last year... We lived together, so it was pretty hard, but 6 months on, I'm glad we are over. We've not spoken since the break up and I think it would have been extremely hard if we did. Despi... (read in full...)

I can't bear the thought of him kissing another girl!

Q.   Do you think that kissing is cheating? When I was with my ex, I would have firmly said no - I really didn't think kisses meant that much and weren't personal, I kissed other people and he did too, it was never sober or with the same person more...

A.   23 December 2013: A few things to clarify... I meant passionate kissing, as in with tongues. WiseOwlE, I think the title is misleading... I was just interested people's opinions, I'm not overcome by jealousy over an imaginary event. I am not worried about my... (read in full...)

I realised I always have a better time with my friends and without my boyfriend. Should I worry?

Q.   When my boyfriend and I first got together (three years ago) we always used to have a great time when we went out just us or in a group, it was part of the reason we got together. Now however we always end up going home early together, not be...

A.   12 December 2011: I'm 21 and sometimes I /feel/ old when I'm out in town and see little girls in tiny dresses and no tights walking down cobbled streets covered in snow haha. The reason I was worried is because it was a male friend that pointed it out and I always... (read in full...)

I want to be friends and unsure if I should message this lady again?

Q.   I am just wanting some advice from some agony aunts and uncles out there. I have started a new job in a new town recently and have slowly started to make friends. I am a shy person and dont have that many close friends anyway. The problem is that ...

A.   12 December 2011: I would just message her whenever. I wouldn't think anything of it if someone invited me shopping and messaged a couple of times to see if I was up for it still. Just don't send more than three messages in a row without reply haha. Have fun =)... (read in full...)

I think we liked each other, nothing came of it, should we try again?

Q.   I met this guy through my friend. She used to take me along to band practice with her sometimes, and I met him there. The first time I went we didn't really speak much. He's a quiet person, but he was happy to reciprocate when I tried to talk to ...

A.   12 December 2011: Go for it! From what you've said he's into you. He wouldn't have bothered in the first place otherwise. Your friend obviously stopped inviting you to band practice because he liked you. Go and talk to him. What have you got to lose? And from the... (read in full...)

10 years as friends, 4 years as FWB, I'd like to know what is going on! I miss him

Q.   Please help! Confused.com. Basically i've been friends with this guy for over 10yrs. In the last 4yrs, we kind of made it clear how we felt for one another. We've had sex about 6times, but always remained friends. In the last 2yrs our frie...

A.   12 December 2011: Usually, I'd think it had been going on for too long for him to have feelings for you, especially after you told him how you felt, and wouldn't think he was interested. BUT. See how this promised phone calls goes tomorrow. If he phones, see what... (read in full...)

I don't know if he's a complete liar or not.

Q.   i have been having an affair at work with this man. I am extremely attracted to him and can't get him put of my head. Everybody found out about us at work. His girlfriend also works in the same place she is the only one that does not know. i had ...

A.   12 December 2011: One of my friends was in a very similar situation with a guy at our work. He was delighted with the situation, he had a long term gf to offer him support and a relationship and then a bit of stuff on the side when he was feeling horny. This ... (read in full...)

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