A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have a serious jelousy problem and I really need any advice you can give me to stop it. I was cheated on and since then I became paranoic and jelous, I use to be quite laid back about my guys and their time, but since the ex who cheated, I became a little monster, and it has gave me a lot of problems with my new guys (but mostly with myself and my feelings), ´cause whenever they are not talking to me (or with me) I get the worst ideas and it is hurting me...Most of the time I just stay quite but that doesnt mean my mind is gone,another times I speak my mind even when I know that is gonna hurt the relationship but I can´t help it, I am really loosing my mind in here, I KNOW I am wrong and that´s why I am asking for some help... Is there something I can do to stop feeling this way? thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 January 2010):
I think you might need counselling for this, because it's clearly quite bad. You need to try and just focus on your own life at the moment, and get yourself healed. You haven't moved on from being hurt, and until you face up to that moment and accept that it happened and it was just one man who did this to you, you won't move on and find yourself a decent guy. So I think you should just focus on yourself. Don't look for a guy, and just find yourself again. You'll get there, and there is a great guy out there who will love you.
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