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writes: I'm not sure what I feel for this guy anymore. We had been dating for almost three years and both did the other pretty dirty. There was a lot of trust issues, and emotional abuse on both ends. When we were together I didn't even really like him. He is not someone I can forsee a future with. He is older than all the other men I've dated but acts like he's younger than me. We've been apart for almost a year. Both of us moved on with a lot of unresolved hate. I split with my man a few months ago but he remained with his girlfriend. Recently he has been trying to come back into the picture. He wants to meet up and tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me. Then the next minute he acts like I don't exist. He is hot and cold with me. I can still feel all the anger he still has for me, but yet he says that he won't be with me until I give up the anger for him.I don't understand it. I love him but I hate him. There is nothing I want from him but yet I continue to play the fool in this relationship. He writes me inappropriate stuff, we mess around, and then I get angry with him and myself that he played me and continues to see this other girl.I don't know what to do...suggestions.
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reader, MajorDisplayerOfInternationalPlayerBehavior  +, writes (29 August 2012):
 It sounds like a strictly physical relationship. Ask yourself these questions: Do you want a primarily physical relationship that you know won't go anywhere? And, do you want to get sucked back into the same love/hate relationship that you walked away from before? Normally, when two people break up and are with other partners, and have all that hate, it's a lose lose situation to get back together.Because all that you have created is another reason to argue about.
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