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Can a no strings attached relationship ever turn into a real relationship?

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Question - (29 May 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 May 2013)
A female Ireland age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi there

im back out on the dating scene again yeeaah well anyways i kinda want nsa's fun and no relationship however that seem to be somewhat hard

as now the three guys im sleeping with want to have a realtionship yes all three

but i don't know what to do i like each one diffrently but i have been burned before and don't want the presures of been tied back into a relationship. beside i have my child to think of

there is one guy i like more then the rest of them but he has shitty hrs as in works all night and barely around during the day so for my child this would be cat. as for the other 2 well they are nice but i don't see them long term from me

whats more we met for nsa fun so how is one meant to date and build a relationship from that and if someone has tried does it work

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 May 2013):

olderthandirt agony auntnsa..let's see, is that no such anomoly, nothing savory alas? What's wrong with traditional one man/one woman love ever after?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (29 May 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntwhen you don't know what to do do nothing...

as for an NSA turning into a real relationship... mine did but we had very extenuating circumstances. I was NOT available to him for a Long term permanent partner when we started and I was not interested in anything but fun and games. He swears this is what allowed him to fall in love with me. That he felt NO pressure to be anything but my play toy... and that is probably why YOU have 3 guys wanting more...

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