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writes:How do you know if a guy is playing you?I think this guys toying with me, he did all these things and now he's acting funny.He basically:Touched my waistFixed my glasses for meHugged me(we're literally acquaintances)I asked for help for a class, so he offered me his number.I texted him reminding him who I was, he called me the next day about the text. But didn't "remember" who I was.(which wasn't surprising)He sends me a weird text that seemed to not be meant for me about a place. When I responded in confusion, he said the name of the place again. So I told him that I think he's texting the wrong person. He just didn't respond after that. When I asked for help for class he either responds a day later or doesn't respond at all.The other day I accidentally called him trying to call my friend, he calls back and I told him it was an accident, i touched the wrong person. What confused me was he asked who I was.(again!) then literally the next evening I receive an "accidental" call from him.What do you think is up with him? Do you think he's just playing games with me?Guys, what do you have to say?
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reader, Abella +, writes (5 October 2012):
 He might be genuine but I think he sounds like a player in training. He denied too - classic player behaviour - where they never admit "YES", when they are sprung. And his actions are well practised = I think he is defining and developing a strategy and a series of techniques that he intends to use on each girl. It is all too practised and appear to be very deliberate.Anonymousmale1 - writes amazing articles and really does define a player in his article belowhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-be-attractive-a-beginners-guide-for.htmlThe problems that appear and the cracks in the relationship that emerge when you get involved with a player result in all manner of problems with the girls who have fallen for a player. The five anonymous female posters below have all endured various problems with players.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/it-feels-like-hes-rushing-things--.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/this-hot-guy-might-be-a-player-who.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-know-he-is-a-player-so-how.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-possible-to-tame-a-guy-who.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-guys-always-cheat-on-me-whats.htmlPlayers seem all gloss and glitter at the start but they are not worth the trouble. If they cannot reform then you are better off walking before your heart is stolen. The misery of waiting for him to come home, the lies, the times when he is late with a fanciful excuse are all insults to your intelligence. Worse is the noise and bluster and the false indignation when you dare to accuse him of cheating (except he is cheating and he knows it) – yet he will try to paint you are the wicked one for daring to doubt his veracity. Keep on doubting a player as you walk away at double quick speed. There are really nice guys out there who are reliable and honourable and never want to cheat.I am talking about Real guys who you should focus on to help achieve long term happiness and a reliable caring and kind partner.
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