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Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it?

Q.   Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it? I have a girlfriend and work with a woman who is married but gives herself away all the time - she clearly has a little thing for me. For a while now our ...

A.   24 August 2013: Looking back on my last answer, I realize I may have jumped the gun in telling you to look for a new job. I don't know what type of job you have, so it may not be easy for you to replace it. There are still other ways you can discourage your crush ... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it?

Q.   Is it possible for a crush on unattainable women to just fade without trying to get rid of it? I have a girlfriend and work with a woman who is married but gives herself away all the time - she clearly has a little thing for me. For a while now our ...

A.   23 August 2013: No, I'm afraid not. If you're not trying to get rid of your attraction to her, then that means you're feeding it. In which case, it's not going to go away. It's going to get worse. If you want to stay with your girlfriend, then you may end up having ... (read in full...)

The girl I've had a crush on for years is moving away! Should I tell her how I feel?

Q.   the girl ive had a crush on since seconded grade is moving to florida this new year what do i do. should i tell her how i feel or forever be quiet and give up on her. if you have any better ideas please tell me. 8/22/13 ...

A.   23 August 2013: You've got nothing to lose by telling her, so I would do it if I were you. If you don't, you're always going to wonder if she felt the same. ... (read in full...)

Do guys ever change their minds after rejecting a woman?

Q.   Do guys ever change their mind after rejecting a woman, especially if they realise they've almost completely 'read her wrong' first time around? ...

A.   22 August 2013: In my experiences, it depends on the guy, and how long I've known him. If it was someone I just met, it depended on if he decided to give me a second chance after a bad first impression. ... (read in full...)

What does it mean when your husband doesn't get hard anymore?

Q.   Hi I'm a married woman, mother of 2 and 1 on the way. My husband and I just recently relocated for a better life for the family. We don't know anyone here so we just rely on each other to get to know the area more. So as most parents know, its ...

A.   22 August 2013: If he was in his 40s or older, I'd say his "down there" area probably just isn't working as well as it used to. If he is between 22-25 like you, it could be a number of different things. One, you mentioned you have to try and fit it into your ... (read in full...)

She doesn't want to be friends but won't block/delete my number. Why?

Q.   Question for the group here thanks for any reply: A girl blocked my number previously twice and unblocked it... shes telling me to leave her alone for a few weeks, doesnt want to be friends, yet refuses to delete my number or block it again. W...

A.   22 August 2013: It seems like she's playing mind games with you for attention. Don't give her the satisfaction. Don't think it would change if you were to get in a relationship with her, either. It would only get worse. Be with someone who knows what she wants. ... (read in full...)

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