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Is this heavy petting and will it lead to sex?

Q.   My boyfriend whom i have been together for 2 months want to touch my breast and vagina when we are french kissing. Should I allow him to do that? Is that considered heavy petting and if I agreed to it will that be leading him on to sex?...

A.   22 April 2010: Yes it's "heavy petting" and trust me it WILL lead to other things. He needs to know what stop means. A women is only a virgin once. Save the experience for the wedding night. That may sound old fashioned but he will always remember the "gift" ... (read in full...)

Is it possible to change a man's mind once they've settled on a course?

Q.   Hi, I've written before about my boyfriend who is going through a divorce and that I feel as though he has been showing less interest in me as a person recently and been a bit complacent towards me - even though he did make the effort to see me...

A.   18 November 2009: Being more than twice your age I'd suggest you take a break.go on a vacation and re-evaluate your life-dependancy is a bad bad thing.... (read in full...)

Love Triangle: Should I wait and see how things go?

Q.   ok, I'm in a dilemma. I like this guy and he says he likes me too, but he has a gf that he has been on and off with for three years. The complicated thing is that in between their relationship she was married and had 3 kids.(He has no kids with her) ...

A.   18 November 2009: From my male perspective, he'll NEVER be a faithful partner if he is this wishy-washy now. I'd find someone that loves me for me and not my level of patience... (read in full...)

Niece gave me BJ while sleeping

Q.   I went to visit my sister while i was driving thru calif. We had a BBQ and lots of drinks. Well around midnight i went to bed and passed out. About 3 am i was woken up to a really good blow job but the lights were off. I was thinking it was one of ...

A.   18 November 2009: Have you considered talking to the niece about it to see if she is mentally disterbed? I mean mopst females think you have to be crazy to give a BJ to start with.... (read in full...)

I want to stop cheating but my boyfriend doesn't satisfy me sexually!

Q.   hi evry one i have a serious problem,my boyfriend have got sex problem first i thought may it was me then i cheated with another guy but dat guy was fine.i love him and i want to stop cheating but my problem is he don't satsfy me,i have tried ...

A.   18 November 2009: There are toys(marital aids) that'll substitute for the loss of hardness. you might want to introduce some kink into the relationship... (read in full...)

A bad experience in bed!

Q.   I had an experience in bed the other night and I am not sure how I should react to it. I was having sex with my boyfriend, I was lying on my stomach and he was on top of me. We were both very drunk. Then he stuck it my bum. I dont know whethe...

A.   18 November 2009: Been there-done that! In the "heat of the moment" guys have a desire to please a women in any way posible. If you ever look at porn you will see that "back-door" sex is depicted as exrtemely pleasurable to some women. My guess is he was trying to ... (read in full...)

My very first time...

Q.   I was 19 when I lost my virginuty. It was with a guy I liked;it was my bffs cousin and he was 17 yrs old. I told him we should hook up when got drunk and just laughed and asked, what about the next day.I didnt know if he meant sex or a ...

A.   18 November 2009: you actually were raped not just taken advantage of.If I were you( I know I'm not- I'm a guy) I'd report it to the police. Remember it was NOT your fault!... (read in full...)

He can masturbate without a problem but when it comes to sex he cant keep it up!

Q.   This coming Friday is mine and my boyfriend's 1 year anniversary. I've been living with him for a while now and I love him so much. He means everything to me and we can talk and be together all the time and never get the slightest bit tired of each ...

A.   18 November 2009: this may sound mean at first but thee's a point to it. Many men need to masturbate rather than have intercourse in order to have an orgasm. So my advice is to get involved with his action in order to recieve the attention you deserve.... (read in full...)

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

Q.   How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

A.   18 November 2009: a very good buddy of mine had this problem. He found out a year or so later that he had prostate cancer. I'd say make him go see a doctor ASAP. Not saying it's the reason but it sounds familiar so Ithought I'd hazard a comment to err on the side ... (read in full...)

How do I make my penis smaller?

Q.   I don't like the size of my penis. It actually gets in the way. How can I make it smaller?...

A.   18 November 2009: oh to only have that "problem"... (read in full...)

How do I make my man really hard?

Q.   I want him to become very hard and so he could be the happiest.. Any tips or ideas? I'm willing to do anything and i'm always in for something new! Cheers...

A.   17 November 2009: Tell him how good it feels and what you want him to do next... (read in full...)

I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?

Q.   ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...

A.   17 November 2009: no, you can only give up your virginity once and it should be with the one you will be sleeping with the rest of yur life. trust me as one who knows,once you know your wife gave it up for someone else you'll never not think about it every time you ... (read in full...)

How do I make my man really hard?

Q.   I want him to become very hard and so he could be the happiest.. Any tips or ideas? I'm willing to do anything and i'm always in for something new! Cheers...

A.   17 November 2009: talk "dirty talk" that'll make a boy or man explode when the time is right[if you know what i mean]and happiness is not produced it's jointly enjoyed. One last piece of advice; you need to reach orgasm first. We men like to be a "ladys first" kind ... (read in full...)

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