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I am a person just like anyone else; I think thats qualification enough. I do follow Catholic morality; it's nothing to get upset about or fear it's just a fact. Feel free to disagree with anything I say just don't verbalize it unless you are prepared to let me defend myself.

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Seriously depressed, should I run away, what do I do?

Q.   I seriously am depressed and I hate my life. This has gone on too long. I have no friends and I think everyone hates me in my grade. I'm only 13 years old and I think I should run away. Should I runaway?...

A.   12 January 2008: No don't run away, that would ruin your life. Everyone feels this way at one point in their life, belive me. Now you should start talking to people about your problems. If you don't think that you have any friends at school, forget them and talk to ... (read in full...)

Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?

Q.   i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...

A.   12 January 2008: No it is definitly not right and your laws are screwy. And no Complicated*One the state of the relationship could not matter in the least. If you think this kind of relationship is okay then you got issues or perhaps have never experienced this ... (read in full...)

Why do men need to watch porn and how should I handle my husband's preference to pornography?

Q.   Why do men need to watch porn? Every time i go away from home my husband masturbates and watch porn,even if we had sex 2-3 times during the week. It makes me feel uncertain about his love for me. I have told him that but now he does it when I am not ...

A.   12 January 2008: Well first of all it should be said that watching porn is not simply an action that can be cut off right away (thought i wish it were). It is an addiction, a very powerful one because it involves the pleasure of sex which is the greatest amount of ... (read in full...)

Did I do something wrong or are we just growing apart?

Q.   Hello. I'm 13, and I really like this guy I've known him since I was in kindergarden, but I don't know if he likes me, even as a friend anymore. We used to be to txt all the time but ever since my 13th. birthday he's been acting wierd. I had a huge ...

A.   12 January 2008: Yes, i agree that love, especially at that age, makes us guys rather dumb and cowardly. And now since it seems that he failed many times to express himself he might be angry and fustrated with himself. So, be patient of course and i would suggest ... (read in full...)

Why is I seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?

Q.   why is i seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?...

A.   12 January 2008: Ok this is not all that hard to figure out. The reason is because of the double standard existing in current society. Boys that are sexually active and open about it are usually given recognition but a girl who is just as sexually explicit is seen ... (read in full...)

I'm scared but I know I'm ready.

Q.   I'm 17 years old and so is my boyfriend. I'm ready to have sex with him, i'm just nervous because i'm a virgin and he isn't. What if i'm bad and don't know what to do and what if it hurts? I'm scared i suppose but i know i'm ready....

A.   12 December 2007: Ok how can you possibly think you are ready to have sex if you are this scared and uncertain of how he will react? I don't expect you to listen to me since enough time passed for you to do it alot, so this is more for everyone else. This situatio... (read in full...)

How long should I be with my gf before we sleep together?

Q.   i'm kinda a fish outta water when it comes to relationships, being that iv only had one, ever! which im still in, im jus wondering how long should i be with my gf before we sleep together?...

A.   12 December 2007: Hmm This is really quite easy. Just look at your right hand. See a wedding ring there? No? Then you aren't ready ace. Look, I know everyone thinks its okay to just have sex when you both think you feel ready. Only problem with that is that your ... (read in full...)

Do you think he likes me?

Q.   I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm still in public school. Some of my friends think this guy likes me. I'm not gonna say his name. On the first day of school he winked at me. One time in gym class I was just standing in the middle of the gym and he ...

A.   12 December 2007: Speaking as a guy, probably not. He's either a player or an idiot. But either way you would be wise to avoid these kind of guys because--hint hint--he's not interested in you for the right reasons.... (read in full...)

I feel he's on the other side of the computer laughing at me...

Q.   I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He ...

A.   12 December 2007: You say that the age difference is not a problem, I say it is. He is older and knows how to get into your head. You are still learning how to have relationships with other people and of course with boys. It dosen't matter that you may never meet, ... (read in full...)

It wasn't my first time, but it was horrible. Is something wrong with me?

Q.   I had sex last night and I didn't enjoy it the least bit. It wasn't my first time. But for some reason it was boring and horrible. It didn't hurt of feel bad, it just didn't feel good. Is there something wrong with me?...

A.   12 December 2007: No don't worry there is nothing wrong with you. The reason why you don't feel pleasure from it could be for a number of reasons. Your situation seems (to me) a good example of why sex is not a nonchalant thing you do because you love somebody as ... (read in full...)

Do we have hope

Q.   My ex boyfriend and I were together for nearly three years. We broke up a couple of months ago when I found out he'd lied and cheated- not once, but many times. But now I am thinking about giving him another chance- things were good in the last ...

A.   10 December 2007: I really don't think you should give him a second chance so easily. It is quite natural to feel attatchment to an ex especially if you go out for a long time. However you need to realize that he wasn't so crazy about you then so why would he be now? ... (read in full...)

"I can't get over my teacher" question...

Q.   Hello I'm writing to you because I have a huge crush on my teacher. I also think she has a crush on me. She's always staring at me even when i don't speak and she always drops her pencil in front of me and bends down to get it. I don't know if she ...

A.   10 December 2007: I agree with the peivious answer and would like to add that yeah of course it's a crush. The fact that you are doing something as childish as fantasizing about her is testament to that. Stop dreaming, stop masturbating, and find yourself a girl your ... (read in full...)

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