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He wants me with him all the time. How do I let him know...time apart is okay?

Q.   Hi, I need some advice on how to deal with my partner, he basically expects me to stay in every night, and every day with him, and every time i enjoy any time apart from him, say drinks with work colleagues, a huge row ensues. I have tried reaso...

A.   31 December 2006: hey again, well like i said last time talk to him, every relationship needs communication, tell him how you feel and that he cant not trust you because of past relationships. If you havent got anything planned for tonight go out for a meal and talk ... (read in full...)

My ex gf wants back in my life after she had cheated and lied to me! What should I do?

Q.   well, long story short me an my girlfriend broke up like 2 or 3 weeks ago. we had been dating for like 2 weeks away from a year. she borke up with me, and then a few days later i found she had lied, gone to a dance and slowdanced a few times with a ...

A.   31 December 2006: Hi, for a start dont worry about what anyone else thinks its your life. It realy all depends on what your heart is telling you if you love her and honestly believe that she wont do it again then go for its worth a try, but if your not so sure and ... (read in full...)

Marriage is what he wants but I'm wary as I was stood up at the alter, in my past. What should I do?

Q.   i'm in love with my bf and we've been seeing each other for 6 months even though we have been friends for about 5 years. The problem is that he wants us to get married and i'm not sure if i really consider marriage for me as i was stood up at ...

A.   31 December 2006: I think six months is a bit fast even though you have been mates for a long time tell him you need a little more time maybe another six months or until you feel ready. Try not to think of what happened last time i no it may seem hard but you have ... (read in full...)

Should I call my ex bf and give a New Year's greeting?

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. He moved away and has a new girlfriend. I am dating now but I have still not met someone special. I will be going to the city that my ex lives in for a few days next week. I had no intention of ...

A.   31 December 2006: I think you should leave it why bring up the past. move on dont go back when we are all moving forwad to 2007. Hope this helped.... (read in full...)

I'm 16.I love my bf but .I have fears about my relationship. Advice please?

Q.   Me(16) and my boyfriend (20) of 1.5 years has had sex for 3 times already, we are in a very loving relationship,but I fear that if we start having sex alot the relationship will be more based on that than on love.And I fear losing him. Am I just ...

A.   31 December 2006: Hi, sex in a relationship is a god thing but maybe not all the time like you say. What ever you both feel comfortable with once a week, twice a week whatever makes you feel happy, i dont think sex could ruin the relationship and i dont think you ... (read in full...)

My daughter is dating a man I disapprove of and it driving a wedge between us! Help?

Q.   Hi, please help. My daughter is 18 almost 19 years old and dating a really old guy, he's 27 and I disapprove very much. My daughter lives on her own and pays her own bills so she assumes this means that i have no control over her. she's been seein...

A.   31 December 2006: Hi, It is nice to see that you obviously really care for your daughter and are very concerned but having your mum butting into your relationship is not the best thing in the world. i no it will be hard but try and sit back let her get on with it and ... (read in full...)

He got dumped by his gf and I like him! Should I ask him out?

Q.   theres a boy i really fancy hes only just been dropped by his girlfriend. do you think i should get in there and ask him or not? please help?...

A.   31 December 2006: Hey, yeah i think its a good idea for you to ask him out, but give him some time because he may not feel like getting with anyone just yet. Why not ask him out for a friendly drink with a couple of friends so he knows your kind of interested and you ... (read in full...)

He wants to be just friends and sometimes-he doesn't even act like that! What's going on?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Recently, my crush told me that there's no hope of us ever being together (not in so many words...I just read between the lines of his answer to the question, "Why can't we be together?" and figured out that that's basically what h...

A.   31 December 2006: Hey Sarah, im sorry to hear that things couldnt work out between you two, but the reason he might be being distant is he could be worried that you might still want to be more than just friends and is trying to steer clear until he knows for ... (read in full...)

I'm a 19 yr old virgin - am I missing out!?

Q.   I've been really depressed for the past few years due to my lack fo love life. I'm now 19 years old, and only had my first kiss a few weeks ago, and that was only a one off snog when out on the lash. I'm still a virgin, and when my friends, who ...

A.   30 December 2006: Hey, no trust me your not missing out, it is best to wait until you have found the right person, i wish i had im 16 and 16 weeks pregnant now id rather be a virgin than be a 16 yr old single mum. When you go out with your mates dont take any notice ... (read in full...)

Had sex and found out after...the condom split! What do we do now?

Q.   Well yesterday me and my boyfriend had sex and it was all going well until we finished and noticed the condom had split. We are always safe and have never done anything unprotected but this suddenly happened and i dont know what to do about it were ...

A.   30 December 2006: Hi hunni, dont worry its not the end of the world (although it may seem like it) I am guessing you are not taking the pill so there is a 50/50 chance you could be pregnant. Well it's good that you were taking precautions because if you feel you want ... (read in full...)

He's a really great guy--so how do I know if he likes me back?

Q.   hi im 21 and the guy that im crushing on is 31. He is a manager at my work in a diff department tho. He doesnt have a gf/wife him and i get along great! I usually give him a hand movement whenever i leave but the other day he gave me a ...

A.   30 December 2006: Hi ther, no ther is nothing wrong with liking someone older, age should not have anything to do with a relationship. If you like the guy TELL HIM you will never find out how he feels about you if you dont ask! It may seem weird to talk to your ... (read in full...)

I am 13 and got drunk at a party..did this older boy take advantage of me? Any advice?

Q.   By the way, I'm a girl, and I'm 13. Yesterday I went to a friend's brother's birthday party, and had a little too much to drink. I can remember that a guy who was 15/16 kissed me, before pulling away and saying that he thought the host would kill ...

A.   30 December 2006: Hi, well this is a tough one. some people would say he was taking advantage, some people would say he wasnt, but really it all depends on how you felt at the time i know you were drunk but if you can try to remember if you liked him being like that ... (read in full...)

He wants me with him all the time. How do I let him know...time apart is okay?

Q.   Hi, I need some advice on how to deal with my partner, he basically expects me to stay in every night, and every day with him, and every time i enjoy any time apart from him, say drinks with work colleagues, a huge row ensues. I have tried reaso...

A.   30 December 2006: Hey, your not the only person with these worries. Sit and talk to him tell him exactly how you feel and that its not going to change anything between the two of you, but that it might if you are together all the time and maybe arrange a day or a few ... (read in full...)

I want a relationship and I don't want to be a virgin! What's wrong with me..why can"t I find someone?

Q.   Hey! I'm a 22 year old female virgin :/...i'm don't believe i'm ugly, I have gotten guys before but always tend to not call them back or back away from them because of insecurities. I'm a little over weight, I weight 145 and am 5'5...but I don't ...

A.   30 December 2006: Hi, no dont worry i am very sure your not the only person in this situation. Ok so when you go out ACT confident (even if you dont feel it) and if a guy starts talking to you that you like, keep smiling and if the conversation goes any further tell ... (read in full...)

I now want him to be my boyfriend..What should I do to change the situation and win him back into my life?

Q.   Hi, I’m 24 and I started a new job this year, which I love to bits, and in the process, got to know one of my collegues, (he’s 20), who was giving me lots of attention and flirty compliments. At the time, we were both single and he asked me out for ...

A.   30 December 2006: Hi, this is a tricky situation. You could try telling him how you feel about him and explaining to him that when you went on your date together it was not really the best time for you to be dating but you feel differntly about it now and if he would ... (read in full...)

My ex bf is dating my best friend and I still have strong feelings for him! What do I do?

Q.   my ex bf is dating my best friend but i still have feelings for him. my boyfriend of 2yrs told me he liked my friend of almost 5yrs. at the time we were having problems but were still sexually involved. my friend knew i still loved him cos i told h...

A.   30 December 2006: Hi, the way it seems to me is that your friend cant be a true friend if she new how you felt. Does your ex no how you feel about him? You should try talking to them both together and tell them how you feel about him and your friend letting you down ... (read in full...)

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