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He has a bad reputation but I like him, what can I do so that he feels the same?

Q.   okay well i'm fourteen and i really like a guy named Andrew but he has a rep. he has gone out with alot of girls, including my bestfriend. but i still lik him lots. i dont know why. and he said he liked me, but then he changed his mind. right before ...

A.   14 August 2008: Go radio silence on him. He's a guy who loves the attention, and if you take it away he'll work harder to earn your attentions and affections. :) And if not, then he's obvs a jerk anyways.... (read in full...)

My parents beat me, my fiance is the only one keeping me going. I made her parents angry and I might not see her again. What do I do?

Q.   Im lost... Me and my fiance are 18 and 17, she honestly keeps me alive, im beat daily by my parents, and i cant keep going with out her. Ive made her parents rly mad at me cause i snuck over after a huge fight with my parents. I may not see her ...

A.   14 August 2008: Honey, you're in the age bracket of 18-21. You, sir, are an adult. If your parents treat you like this, move out. They cannot dictate to you who you can and cannot see anymore.... (read in full...)

I like this guy at school, but I don't know if he's gay or not. What do I say?

Q.   im gay and i like this guy at school.Last year we became really good friends and we tell each other everything. i wanna be with him but i dont know if hes gay what should i say without ruining our friendship.Please help me im really crushing on him...

A.   14 August 2008: I'm with Shawna on this one. They're both really clever. I can tell you off the bat what NOT to do, and thats make a move on him. It'd put the spooks up on him.... (read in full...)

I'm too different from most other teens? It seems like all the other teens are watching those dumb reality shows and Family Guy.

Q.   How can I get a girlfriend, when I'm too different from most other teens? I always seem to have the unpopular or uncool opinion on things. Like watching school brawls, everyone else thinks it's funny and cool to watch. I always just walk to a differ...

A.   14 August 2008: Honey, its high school. People are jackasses in high school to anybody that is different. But don't ever let that get you down. Personally, I think thats cool. And yeah, as soon as you escape to college or uni then you will find people like you. ... (read in full...)

I'm not physically attracted my boyfriend. I feel so shallow!

Q.   My boyfriend is the sweetest man, he protects me,is loving, caring, and the perfect person for me. We have the most incredible sex life i could ever ask for and gives me everything i need BUT... i do not find him physically attractive! I feel ...

A.   14 August 2008: Nothing. If you dont actually fancy them, no offense, but you're screwed. You've got to want them as well as like them as a person. There is only so far that turning the lights off and sinking a few drinks can do. Sex may be good as well, but unle... (read in full...)

Shy, Inexperienced Guy Needs Answers

Q.   I'm a 21 year old guy, in school, and I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on date. I'm still a complete virgin, never even had a first kiss yet. I'm normal and intelligent. The thing is I am just really shy and nervous, especially ...

A.   14 August 2008: NO. NO PROSTITUTE. Sorry about the caps, but its gotta hit home. Dont worry about being a virgin, everybody is different. And its cute, really! You just have to relax, and take a breath. If you keep calm you'll be fine. Find a girl that you can ... (read in full...)

Old age, love and incest, is that so wrong?

Q.   Hello...My name is Leonard I am 80 years old been carrying on a relationship with my 66 year old married sister. I to am married, but we're in love. We have had sex together and will more, when we can. We both are in unhappy marrages and we live far...

A.   14 August 2008: DUDE. Thats your sister. Just no. If you share a gene pool, just say no. Its not right.... (read in full...)

Sex doesn't feel good no matter what position he tries. Help!

Q.   hey. i'm almost 15 and my bf's almost 16. we've had sex about 9 times. the first time we did it it really hurt. and since then it always hurts in the beginning. then when it's all the way in it doesn't hurt but it doesn't feel good either. he tries ...

A.   14 August 2008: ok, excuse the icky question here, but are you totally 100% soaking wet when it gets going? because if not, then is gonna feel like he is sandpapering your cervix. you need to be well lubricated. try alot of foreplay or lubes, and see how it goes. ... (read in full...)

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