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I like this guy at school, but I don't know if he's gay or not. What do I say?

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Question - (14 August 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 September 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im gay and i like this guy at school.Last year we became really good friends and we tell each other everything. i wanna be with him but i dont know if hes gay what should i say without ruining our friendship.Please help me im really crushing on him

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2008):

i would advise you to try and get over him and move on. If you tell him he might get a bit creeped out (if he isn't gay)

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A female reader, xalfiex United Kingdom +, writes (14 August 2008):

xalfiex agony auntI'm with Shawna on this one. They're both really clever. I can tell you off the bat what NOT to do, and thats make a move on him. It'd put the spooks up on him.

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A female reader, superrrshawna United States +, writes (14 August 2008):

superrrshawna agony auntcan you ask maybe who he's been dated in the past? who his dream person is? some sort of open ended question where his answer would be a person with a definite sexual orientation?

if you tell him everything and really trust him as a friend, you could tell him you are gay and see what his reaction is?

i know how hard it is. a gay guy friend of mine had a big crush all year on a guy who we STILL aren't sure about. there were rumors, but then again there always are!

good luck!

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