Sweet 20 and never been kissed...
Q. Hello everybody, this is kind of simple but I am almost 20 years old and I am going on a date this weekend. I have been on dates before, but believe it or not I have never really kissed a guy. I mean a peck, yes, but I KNOW that I am going to make ...
A. 20 April 2006: just relax with him and go with the flow. but dont do anything that makes you feel uncomortable. if things are going really well, you'll know and wonder why you were so worried! hope this helps!... (read in full...)
The guy I like wasn't interested, so how do I get over the embarrassment?
Q. I really like a guy who's in the year above me at school. I have asked him out and he told me that he liked me but not in that way, and that we should still be friends. Since then, we haven't spoken or even looked in each others' eyes. I know and...
A. 3 March 2006: thanks guys. it hasn't got any better since i asked him out. he seems really unhappy at school and even more when he sees me. does that mean he doesn't even want me as a friend? i can't stop thinking about him and i feel really down when i think ... (read in full...)
I said no but wished I said yes when he asked me out...I thought he was joking
Q. hi there there is this lad how asked me out but I said no and now I regret saying no to him wt should I do This is wt he said to me he said he loved my new hair colour and then said are you going out with anyone and then said will you go out with...
A. 28 February 2006: aww. he sounds really cute! go to him and tell him you thought he was joking and say you'd love to go out with him. that should solve that one. as for the weight, there really isn't one when you're 15 coz ur changin still so chill, and be proud of ... (read in full...)
I want to go out, but I don't know how to ask boys, or if I should...
Q. Hi, I'm 15 Years Old and Never had a boyfriend All my friends have had boyfriends and had sex with them. They all say to me just go out with anyone, screw them and dump them. I don't want to do that but I do want a boyfriend. The problem is al...
A. 28 February 2006: you're young,luv. you shiouldn'y feel pressured by your friends to gte a boyfriend just to have sex with them. that iasn't the right way to do it. it isn't clever to have sex just to keep up with your friends. wait until 1. you're old enough and 2. ... (read in full...)
He asked me if he could kiss me and I said yes...now he won't talk to me! What should I do now?
Q. Hi,i'm 12 and in the sixth grade and i have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend. You see a couple of days ago me and my boyfriend were talking when he told me he would like to kiss me and i told him i would like to ...
A. 27 February 2006: 12? well you are still very young for this and are only just starting nd getting the hang of balencing your own feelings with what the other person is feeling. chat and be normal with him adn he'll feel secure again. you're probably both embarrased ... (read in full...)
She's married, I have a bf..but all I think about is her! How do I get her out of my mind?
Q. Im a 20yr old female and im totally in love with my friend who is 38 and also female. The problem is shes married. i have told her how i feel and shes cool with it but also said nothing will ever happen between us as she doesnt have those feeling ...
A. 27 February 2006: telling her was a good thing and the fact she 's still your friend is even better. it's just like a relationship with a guy, you will eventually get over the crush. if thinking about her is affecting your relationship with your guy, then you should ... (read in full...)
Can we rekindle our old relationship or should I just forget about him altogether?
Q. I dated a man for 2 years about 16 years ago. He was the love of my life and through other relationships and my 5 year marriage that ended last year, there has not been a day that has gone by that I have not thought of him. Over the years, ...
A. 27 February 2006: hmmmm...that's a tough one. one minute he's tellign you he loves you and has always wanted to be with you, teh next, he 'blows you off'. i'd say hold on and keep an eye on him and his relationship. he's married to this new woman so i'd let him get ... (read in full...)
We have been friends for so long, now I feel more for him...
Q. Hey I have a male friend that I have known for over 10 years. We have been good friends which have crossed the line a couple of times. Now though we are living in the same area and are seeing a lot more of each other. I seem to be developing feeli...
A. 27 February 2006: crossed the line? hmm... sounds like he might be getting feelings for you too. go out for a meal or something - nothing fancy, maybe just lunch in a cafe or something - and get talking. tell him you feel something twards him and see what happens! if ... (read in full...)
I'm ready to break up, I think. But how do I get started?
Q. How do you break up with someone you've dated for 2.5 years? I don't like the way he treats me. When he gets upset about something, it's his way or the highway, and I'm a rug when it comes to that stuff. I'm completely defenseless because I don't ...
A. 27 February 2006: splitting up after an argument isn't the best way so talking it over is problably best, even if it ends in an argument. 2.5 years is kind of a short time to think about marraige, so his family can't have been too serious about it. just tell him why ... (read in full...)
It feels like we are still together but we've broken up...
Q. she broke up with me i love her to death. she says she still wants to be part of my life. after the brake up we hung out and had sex more the once. i whant to get back with her. she just whants me as a friend. plus everytime we hangout it feels like ...
A. 27 February 2006: you do need to get over her. she wants you as a friend and you can't have a proper relationship when only one person wants it. you'll soon find someone else and forget about her. but keep her as a friend!... (read in full...)
I want her to have her first orgasm with me...
Q. i have been with my girl friend for over a year and lost my virginity 2 her a few months back although she had a sexual partner before me she has never had an orgasm. i really want 2 give her her first one to return all the pleasure she has given ...
A. 27 February 2006: it's great that you feel that you want her to have her first orgasm with you. i think you should tell her this. you should respect her when she tells you to stop, but keep trying. ... (read in full...)
A huge friendship dilemma! What should I do?
Q. I've got a friend which is a guy I'll say his name's A, and I've also got a friend which is a girl I'll say her name's B. The problem is, A asked me to hook him up with B 'cause A likes B, but i know that B already has a bf.. But i can't tell A that ...
A. 27 February 2006: i think you should tell B that A asked you, but bring it up in conversation if you can. See what B says and tell A that you asked B but she didn't like him in that way. or, if it turns out that B actually likes A more than her bf, but didn't know ... (read in full...)
I'm "uncool" and I worry about what the "cool" kids think of me!
Q. Hey. I was just ondering if you could help me. I really enjoy school. I have loads of friends and do well in my lessons. Only, I'm in the 'uncool' group of people. There's the 'cool' people, 'middle' people, and the 'uncool' people. I'm sure...
A. 26 February 2006: DON'T WORRY! it happens to most kids in school...in fact, it's still happening to me now. i'm 15 and in my last year of senior school. i'm also in the middle/uncool group at school, but i also hear the gossip about friendships in the 'cool' group. ... (read in full...)
How do I turn my straight mate gay?
Q. Hi. I have this new friend of mine that I have known for two months now who I really like. He does not know I am gay as I am not 'out', but I kind of feel a conection between us, like we talk all the time and go out just together to clubs and stu...
A. 26 February 2006: i think it is slightly selfish to turn a staight guy gay just for you, if he is indeed straight. has he had girlfriends? or any previous homosexual relations? i'd say bring the fact that you're gay into a conversation and maybe he'll get the message ... (read in full...)
She's trying to set me up with someone, but SHE is the perfect girl for me
Q. I've known of this girl since October last year, we both joined a musical group near where I live, and have been rehersing every week. Finally it is the 2 weeks of the show, and out at one of the social events, me and her get to talking. I find ...
A. 26 February 2006: i agree with smeedle (above). if you want to keep in touch, then mobile numbers and emails are good - especially if she thinks you are just a friend because friends do it too. eventually get closer then when you know for sure that she is the one, ... (read in full...)
How should I help out my friend who wants to break up with her suspicious boyfriend?
Q. Hi. This question is to help a best friend of mine who is a girl. She has a boyfriend who she know longer wants to go out with. But she is to scared to finish him. She has the type of boyfriend that checks her text messages and doesn't like her ...
A. 25 February 2006: if she doesn't want to go out with him then she should break it off. it isn't pleasent to either person but it has to be done sometimes. if she is freaked by his almost stalker-like behavior then it is a good reason to break it off... (read in full...)
Any advice for a non-skinny chick?
Q. right we have to do this bleep test at school and and i am realy fat so i get 2 ans 3 and the popular girls take the piss out of me how do i get them to stop...
A. 25 February 2006: just ignore them. i know it isn't easy but honestly it helps. when we did the bleep test i didn't get as far as the thinner girls but i didn't care. your body is probably changing a lot now and you may well get a lot thinner when you get older. ... (read in full...)
Am I being selfish for wanting to see more of her?
Q. Please can you tell me whether you think this arrangement is fair. I have just started a relationship with a girl who has a young daughter. She has told me that I will only be able to see her one evening a week and every other weekend - when her ...
A. 25 February 2006: if the problem is that her daughter is 'in the way' why don't you suggest to do things together as a three, and be more social with the daughter. this may also get you extra 'brownie points' if the relationship carries on. the relationship with the ... (read in full...)
I need someone to talk to about my problems...without involving friends and family. What can I do?
Q. I need some sound advice on how to make myself feel better! I have no one to talk to, and my parents are so narrow minded they think of things too seriously, and only in ways to benefit themselves. I need to chat to someone about my problems and ...
A. 24 February 2006: i find that talking to someone you know, but are not necessarily friends with (ie. hang around with them) helps because they don't judge you in the same way as close friends do, and you don't get the 'knowing' looks that friends tend to give you.... (read in full...)
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