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If my boyfriend likes anal does this mean he might be gay?

Q.   I have been dating my bf for about 8 months and he is super sweet. A few nights ago while we were just cuddling watching a movie out of new where he ask me if I would try anal sex , he has done it before with his ex gf and said he really liked it. I ...

A.   20 May 2010: My boyfriend loves anal and he is most definately not gay. I agree with the other posts I think the main attraction of anal comes from guys watching it on porn, then wanting to do it with their gf's. If you want to try it get him to be very gen... (read in full...)

Blood when I pee. Is there something seriously wrong?

Q.   This is slightly embarassing but i have researched it and cant get a definate answer. Me and my long term boyfriend broke up about 8 weeks ago and since then i have got a new man in my life. Now i am not a virgin and had sex hundreds of time...

A.   10 May 2010: I have had this 3 times and every time I went to the docs, weed in a pot and found out it was a bladder infetion. You have probably got the same. Go to the doctors a few days of anti-biotics will sort it out.... (read in full...)

Too scared to get infected!

Q.   my boyfriend and i really love each other that we do everything together, but the problem is he doesnt like using a condom am not so sure whether he only does that with or maybe he even do it with one night stands that he told me use to have in ...

A.   27 April 2010: If you're saying that he doesn't like condoms and dousn't want to use them with you, then it probably means that he didn't use condoms with any of his one night stands. Both of you could get tested.... (read in full...)

Afraid to talk to the doctor in case this is just silly

Q.   Hey there, I'm quite worried about the size of my vagina and the vaginal opening. When i open my legs it seems to gape and I can feel alot of space inside. During sex quite alot of air gets in, causing embarassment. I've been doing pelvic floor ...

A.   24 April 2010: Just go to the doctors hun. It may be embarrassing at first, but the doc will have seen thousands like you. You may just have to do some exercises to help bladder control. I suspect there is nothing wrong with your vagina, they come in all shap... (read in full...)

How do I make myself seem sick so I don't have to go visit his family?

Q.   I am supposed to go up north (Michigan) with my boyfriend's dads side of the family. i don't want to go because he has never been close with them and it's uncomfortable. The last time i went i had a horrible time. I want to make my boyfriend think i ...

A.   22 April 2010: If I was you I would go with him just to support him. You say he is not close to them so he may need your support when staying with them if it does not go well.... (read in full...)

I'm very well spoken, and am not sure if this is a good or bad thing.

Q.   Hello all. When i am talking to boys, i find my voice extremely annoying. It dosn't change, but i am quite well spoken, and im not sure whether this is a good or bad thing. would it irritate people? i would love a straightforward answer, thankyou ...

A.   22 March 2010: I imagine a lot of boys would find your well-spokeness sexy! x... (read in full...)

How do you keep a long distance relationship?

Q.   The guy that I have liked for over the past year a few months came down to where I live this weekend. He moved a few months ago, and we never really kept in tough, but we still had feelings for each other. As soon as we started hanging out, we ...

A.   8 March 2010: Long distance relationships are really hard, iv been with my bf for over 3yrs and he lives 3hrs away but we have managed to make it work. Find out when its best to call each other and you could stick to the same time each day. Then if its possible ... (read in full...)

How do you keep a long distance relationship?

Q.   The guy that I have liked for over the past year a few months came down to where I live this weekend. He moved a few months ago, and we never really kept in tough, but we still had feelings for each other. As soon as we started hanging out, we ...

A.   8 March 2010: Long distance relationships are really hard, iv been with my bf for over 3yrs and he lioves 3hrs away. ... (read in full...)

How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up?

Q.   How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up? ...

A.   24 February 2010: Try a line of black eyeliner on the top of the eyelid and a bit under the eyelid. It dousn't matter if the line isn't perfect! Then smudge the eyeliner slightly to achieve a smoky look that isnt too heavy. Then a few coats of a good mascara ... (read in full...)

3 packs of pill back to back and now I have irregular bleeding

Q.   First off thankies for reading this! Ok, I've been on the pill (Microgynon 30) for just over a year. And I've been having sex since I went on it, but not with condoms. Doctors told me that it was ok if I took one packet straight after the other so I ...

A.   12 January 2010: I take microgynon. I'v ran 3 packs of pills together a few times and every time I get the bleeding which I asked my doctor about and she said it's called spotting. It is normal but just mention it to your doctor the next time you go to get more ... (read in full...)

Do women enjoy their clitoris being "tapped" on

Q.   Do women enjoy men "tapping" or hitting their penis against the vagina, especially near the clitoris area. A couple of my mates said their girlfriends enjoyed doing so because it stimulates the clitoris. I would simply like to know your p...

A.   12 January 2010: Yes! It is nice! ... (read in full...)

She cheated on me at christmas and I don't know what to do for the best...

Q.   me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for about 4 months now and she told me the other day that over christmas she got drunk and ended up cheating on me, she didn't have sex with this person but they did other things. I really don't know ...

A.   12 January 2010: Sorry but if she can't promise she wont cheat on you again then she obviously dousn't love you that much. She isn't worth it.... (read in full...)

How can I stop being so sensitive?

Q.   Ok so i have been with my boyfriend almost a year and half. I have always been sensitive in this relationship and he has always been the total opposite. When i get upset he gets angry and always wants to break up.he tells me he doesnt want to but ...

A.   11 January 2010: You should not hate yourself for this! At the end of the day you can't change who you are, maybe your boyfriend should be more understanding. I sort of understand you as I have been with my boyfriend for three years and he still dousn't know how to ... (read in full...)

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