My partner cheated and I could do with some advice
Q. I feel it might help me to write on this forum to ask for advice. I have been with my current partner for almost 6 years and we have a 14 months old girl when I discovered she cheated on me. We are not married as both did not want to, but have be...
A. 5 June 2012: Just an update for the record.
I am an idiot and after my last message I still forgave her with the tought that anyway the she said she was just emailing him and nothing else as he lives very far away.
Well well, I have now caught her again! W... (read in full...)
My partner cheated and I could do with some advice
Q. I feel it might help me to write on this forum to ask for advice. I have been with my current partner for almost 6 years and we have a 14 months old girl when I discovered she cheated on me. We are not married as both did not want to, but have be...
A. 12 January 2011: thanks for your answers.
In the end I forgave her and decided to stay in the relationship possibly to have another child so our girl doesn't stay single child.
Anyway I just found out that she still chatting with dude she cheated with.
I am real... (read in full...)
Cheating wife problem. The trust is gone so what should I do - short and long term?
Q. I have written before, when my wife and I were going through a difficult time, and some of the answers and advice were really useful. This is my situation now: we have been married for nearly 16 years, we have 2 daughters, aged 10 and 14. Our ...
A. 12 April 2010: Hi, I am sorry to ear about your situation. Frankly I think you really went the extra mile here and maybe its time to move on. She seems to have some real deeper issues that are maybe not related to you and that she needs to address before she is ... (read in full...)
How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?
Q. I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I ...
A. 25 March 2010: Dude you need to work on your self. You need to ground your self and find what you want in life. And its for sure not to live with a serial cheater that controls you.... (read in full...)
Should I pursue her even though she cheated with others in the past?
Q. I need some serious advice from someone who can relate or can put themselves in my frame of mind. Quick outline of the plot to my story. My best friend is a girl. I have loved her for a long time. She has always known this. We met online 3 ...
A. 25 March 2010: A word of advice. My ex cheated on me after 5 years and one child. I knew her previous relationships ended because she eventually fell for another and cheated. This did not sound right but I did not pay the right attention to my gut feeling and ... (read in full...)
I feel depressed, withdrawn and wish there was some way to make it work. But she cheated!
Q. My girlfriend and I have had problems from the start - 8 years ago and counting. I've read through several other posts and this may seem all to familiar, but I need some advice - I'm currently taking anxiety meds to try and cope. When I met her...
A. 25 March 2010: Man, damp her! You should have dunped her right away. I have been cheated after 5 years and one child. My ex was similar in the way that I could't talk to any girls while she had tons of male friends. She was super jelous and I practically lost ... (read in full...)
My partner cheated and I could do with some advice
Q. I feel it might help me to write on this forum to ask for advice. I have been with my current partner for almost 6 years and we have a 14 months old girl when I discovered she cheated on me. We are not married as both did not want to, but have be...
A. 25 March 2010: Hi Weramazing, Hi jaime90.
Thanks for your replies.things have evolved a bit in the last weeks. We have been trying to keep things together a bit. I have been sleeping at times at her place after watching our daughter when my night shift was on (we ... (read in full...)
Forced into giving him anal sex!
Q. My boyfriend always goes on about anal, and well i dont like it and he knows that, i gave him it to shut him up now he always goes on about it and makes me go on a guilt trip so he can get it, please help i dont know what to do xx...
A. 13 March 2010: if you said yes for whatever reason then you said YES. If you don't like it don't do it. If it becomes a problem that you cannot overcome then dump him. If he is your age he just watches to much porn and things that is how to have sex.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I have hurt his feelings and his manhood- though isn't that better than lying there and faking it?
Q. My boyfriend and I have a fantastic relationship, we've been together almost 2 years and I genuinely couldn't be happier. My problem actually came just last night, when we were about to make love, and before I had a chance to blink, he was in...
A. 13 March 2010: make him understand you want foreplay in a nice way and reward him for it with something special when he does it. And its also good you make it clear you do not like it with out foreplay. but always try to keep a balance btw your and his needs.... (read in full...)
I'm frustrated because during sex, he lasts a few minutes...is this normal?
Q. my boyfriend can hardly ever last long during sex and its getting really frustrating! today he finished in literally less than 2 minutes and we'd hardly gotten into it. is this like a medical problem or normal? i thought he would be able to control ...
A. 13 March 2010: Depends how old he is and how much experience he has. When I was in my teens and early 20es I would come a lot faster than now. I did always worked to control myself and now I do practically come when I like it. I think you should practice with him. ... (read in full...)
My nineteen year old lover wants me to leave my husband for him! I'm so confused on what to do...
Q. I've done something really bad, but it happens every Saturday night, I'm a fifty year old lady and I'm married. I've had sex with an nineteen year old and he loves it and wants me to leave my husband and live with him, I do enjoy his sex but I have ...
A. 13 March 2010: This sounds like a joke. You are 50 and you wanna leave your husband for a 19 year old kid???? The parents of the kid will probably kill you before you move in. ... (read in full...)
I love him and want to believe this is all a "joke" but it has gone too far
Q. So i have a really complex situation, and don't know what to do.. The problem is my boyfriend has been talking to another girl on skype and facebook. He tells me when he talks to her and what is said. But thats not exactly the truth. See, h...
A. 10 March 2010: Dump him. he clearly does not love you from the conversation I have seen and shows little respect for you. Its hard to accept, but thats how it is. I have been in a similar situation where my partner chatted on FB and SKYPE for 6 months untill the ... (read in full...)
My partner cheated and I could do with some advice
Q. I feel it might help me to write on this forum to ask for advice. I have been with my current partner for almost 6 years and we have a 14 months old girl when I discovered she cheated on me. We are not married as both did not want to, but have be...
A. 10 March 2010: sorry guys now that I see it I realise this is rather long...arghhh... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend that I went to my mum for advice about the sexual abuse in her past?
Q. Hey I met this girl and we became real close, anyway she was sexually abused when she was young by her father, I needed advice about all this and I asked my mum about it, I told her about the sexual abuse. Now I feel real guilty, shoud I tell my ...
A. 10 March 2010: no way don't tell her! she will feel betrayed by you and probably will never be able to face you mom. Its ok you asked advice, not usre if your mom is the right person for that cause you have partner now and that is your family from now on. ... (read in full...)
I want to start a family before I get my dream job, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to understand!
Q. Hi =). i'm kinda new so dont abuse me or anything please, unless i say somthing stupid. I'm 18, and i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, also 18. basically we're both in love, and well he wants to go in to the Raf, and i am encou...
A. 10 March 2010: I think if you are sure about both of you its a good idea to have kids earlier (I had mine when I was 30 and my partner 29 and she had to stop working which was a major issue in our relationship) However you are pretty young and I think you might ... (read in full...)
Should I go back to my ex that cheated? Or try the new guy out?
Q. ..I just recently got out of a relationship.. Where i was lied to multiple times, but ONLY cheated on once..with his ex..but never told me about it till i had legit proff.. but anyways I have found myself liking this guy from work, but can't seem to ...
A. 10 March 2010: your old one sounds like a serial cheater. if you can swallow that then go back to him. If you have better morals then don't. I have been cheated on, but never cheated even if I travel for work a lot and have quite a few opportunities I do not let ... (read in full...)
He talks to random girls and lies about porn use. I don't want to be a single mom at 21!
Q. So he has never physically cheated on me that I know of.. But I've caught him talkin to numerous random girls even his ex. We are now engaged and expecting a child.. I've also caught him looking at porn. His arguement is it will never happen again ...
A. 10 March 2010: Relax! watching porn is NORMAL. I do not know any friend who doesn't. Really do not get upset about this is silly. Also talking to girls is good as far as it stays only that. What you expect not to talk to other women ever again?????... (read in full...)
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