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He texts his ex's about me!

Q.   For the last few months my guy has been textin his ex's more and more. It's not this that bothers me its the fact that he never defends me to them and he tells lies about me to them and agrees with them over me. Recentley he started to delete his ...

A.   8 March 2009: Why are you with this guy? He's a loser. Find someone decent who isn't still trailing around after the women he couldnt make it work with.... (read in full...)

Does he like me? And if so, how can I get him to ask me out?

Q.   there is this guy at my school. we have the same lunch hour and kind of the same friends. well I would go sit at the table with my friends and he would sit at another table with his. so every once in a while I would catch him looking at me. I like ...

A.   8 March 2009: So why don't you ask HIM out? Why wait for him to get the hint or the courage. Nothing wrong with being honest and straightforward. And it doesn't mean you are "easy". Give it a shot and let us know how things went!... (read in full...)

In this affair he thinks of me as a booty call, but now I'm falling for him. Help!

Q.   Well where can I start. I am having an affair, we are both married. I don't understand what type of an affair it is? We only meet about once a week, and all we do is have sex. It's been going on for over a year. I am getting so attached that I ...

A.   8 March 2009: I think it's time you did some soul searching. How can you possibly fall for someone who clearly is only interested in you for sex? And are you really, deep inside, the kind of woman who is a cheat? Time to let this guy go. He's not doing yo... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to make love but I'm not ready yet.

Q.   Im 13 and my girlfriend is 14 and she says lets make love i said i want to wait what should i do? a=Do it b=wait Please help...

A.   8 March 2009: WAIT WAIT WAIT! She's not really wanting sex, she's wanting a relationship and some affection and some assurances that you aren't going to leave her. Subconsciously she thinks sex is going to make her feel secure. It isn't. Don't ever le... (read in full...)

Please tell if what I did was wrong or right...

Q.   I was in love with a girl for the last 3 years. It was totally from my side. It was unconditional, unadulterated and pure [typical Taurean me]. We were really good and close friends. Actually we met on net. We were classmates for a short period ...

A.   8 March 2009: Head games and power trips. You deserve better. Besides, how can you be friends (or more) with someone you can't relax and be yourself with? She's right, if it is meant to be it will be, but that doesn't mean you should sit around and wait for ... (read in full...)

My life pretty much stinks on ice!!!

Q.   I don't know what to do... I always feel so down and lonely... my life pretty much stinks on ice!!! I'm always depressed, nothing ever comes easy for me and I dont think I can handle it any more... and to put on to that misery.... I rarely get ...

A.   8 March 2009: Been there and done that. It will pass. Likely all this is connected to your changing hormones. Have you considered going on the birth control pill? Not for having sex (although if you are you DEFINITELY should be on the pill) but because it m... (read in full...)

I thought I wanted a baby but I was wrong! My story

Q.   hiiyyyahh This is to all those teens out there who want to be a mam or a dad in that case, this is written by a 14 year old who was 13 when was going through all this. I really wanted a baby at 13 and me and my bf who was 16 I got pregnant a...

A.   8 March 2009: You and your mom have a fabulous relationship. Now it is even stronger. Trust her always, she loves you and only wants what is best for you. In the future, when you are thinking about something this life changing, trust her to be there for you ... (read in full...)

He asked what I would do if I found out he cheated on me. Should I worry?

Q.   hi=-) just 1 day ago my boyfirend asked me what would i do if i were to find out he was cheating on me this really confused me alot becuase hes always saying how much he loves me and that im the only girl for him. but then why would he ask me this ...

A.   8 March 2009: I wouldn't worry. There's nothing you can do whether he has cheated or not. If you don't trust him then you don't have much of a relationship. Take responsibility for your own feelings, and be strong enough to handle kicking him to the curb if he ... (read in full...)

I'm heartbroken and confused. I want to phone or text him but am I being needy?

Q.   I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 3 years. He lives in Manchester I live in london. I met him on internet dating, he was an asylum seeker and he had nothing to his name. That did not matter I loved him for the who he was. I ...

A.   8 March 2009: Oh sweetie I know the kind of pain you are having. Ive been there too many times myself. Do NOT call him. Do NOT text him. Go make yourself a cup of tea and turn on some sad songs and cry him out of your system. This is not a healthy relation... (read in full...)

I'm falling so deeply and now I'm broken... help...

Q.   I am currently so heart broken I dont know where to start my story. 2 years ago Im seperated from my husband and about 6 months after I met a guy through an adult online dating site thinking i want to just look for some exclusive fun (I dont do h...

A.   8 March 2009: As much as I hate to say it, I think you're done with CS guy. He's bad news. He can't deal with feelings and he can't make a commitment. Do you really want a guy like that? Sure it's going to hurt for a bit. But to be honest, you haven't ... (read in full...)

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