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How can I get my study partner in the sack?

Q.   Here is the situation there is this girl, she is my classmate and she lives not far at my place, she asked me to study with her for exams just like we did last semester, but the thing is I'm attracted to her, and I told her couple of times how I ...

A.   4 November 2011: she has a boyfriend so your going to try to ruin what they have so you can have fun, if you ever get a girlfriend then you cant really complain if they cheat on you, because that's what your trying to get her to do. "I want to show her I'm serious ... (read in full...)

He flirts and texts. But that's it. Do I give up on him? He brings out the best in me.

Q.   I met this guy about a year ago. I started liking him about 5 months ago, still like him. He keeps sending me mixed signals, and Im just really confused. Ive told him I like him, but nothing ever happens. Yet when we text or I see him, he flir...

A.   23 October 2011: i would say that you should keep going at it, he will warm up sooner or later. He simply might not be ready yet. turning around because you like him doesn't make sense. not all men will chase girls, especially in modern society. + it shows they ... (read in full...)

Prom? To go? Or not to go?

Q.   Hello everyone I'm just wondering if I should go for prom this year. It's my only prom. As much as I'm excited at the prospect the price is a big turn off. It's 90 bucks. Although it's not as if my family can't afford it I feel that prom shouldn't ...

A.   15 October 2011: mines coming up soon and I'm not going :D it all depends on the person, if you like that kind of thing then go. or if you think there are better things to do then don't.... (read in full...)

How will I not seem clingy if I don't know anyone but him?

Q.   A young man i,ve been seeing has asked me to go with him to cork for the weekend. I want to say yes but all his friends will be there and his sister ( who i think does not like me ) will be there too with her friends. I don't want to be clingy to ...

A.   15 October 2011: he asked you to go so go, and not all people hate clingy gf's/bf's. all that matters is that you two are happy with each other, it doesn't matter what his sister thinks of you.... (read in full...)

Is it a good idea to get pregnant, aged 16?

Q.   im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months we've been sexually active for 2 months straight and well he has told me he wants to have a baby. i dont really want to have a baby right now because im going through some legal problems ...

A.   28 September 2011: in all aspects its a bad idea... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't let me talk to my friends!

Q.   i have a boyfriend of a year and two months, he keeps me from talking to my friends and from going out with them. ive been talking to this new kid lately and i kinda like him a little, but i really do love my boyfriend. what do i do?!...

A.   24 September 2011: your boyfriend is afraid of this "ive been talking to this new kid lately and i kinda like him a little"... (read in full...)

Peace in the family means apologising for something I haven't done

Q.   I had an old argument with my older brother since I was 6 year old and my father always took his side over me. Now I’m trying to make my independent family, settle down and get married and hopefully be able to see my children but because of this old ...

A.   18 September 2011: according to your update, they want you to move away? that is in a way solving the matter, you cant get through to everyone it's just not possible. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is so immature and flirty and won't grow up!

Q.   I am in love with my boyfriend. I really want things to work but he is so immature it's sad and it puts me off at times. We are the same age, i work but he doesn't. We are both in university, and we have almost the same personalities. We are 20 ...

A.   18 September 2011: sorry to say this but he just doesn't seem like he is looking for a relationship. "I've been exercising my game by flirting with other boys so he feels how im feeling." i don't believe this is the right thing to do as i would consider that chea... (read in full...)

Guys are stupid, I am the king...

Q.   I just want to know how bad this is. I was drunk and sexting a girl on facebook, I was not aloud to talk to her. There were rumors that me and this girl hooked up months before I went on Facebook, but we never did. now she thinks those rumors are ...

A.   18 September 2011: stop drinking, is all i can say. that seems to cause all the problems your having.... (read in full...)

I love him but his family is completely opposed

Q.   I am from india. My boyfriend says 'We' cant be together and there is no future for us as his family will never agree. His mother is threatening Suicide if either of her boys marry outside their community. He loves me but cannot decide about us...

A.   18 September 2011: he should get his mother in counseling. you guys could always elope. love always hurts someone.... (read in full...)

I find myself disgusted by the topic of sex, if a friend or family member brings up the topic I almost die of embarrassment.

Q.   I am 16 years old and have a serious issue with talking about sex. I find myself disgusted by the topic of sex, if a friend or family member brings up the topic I almost die of embarrassment. Absolutely everything about sex disgusts me. I h...

A.   18 September 2011: there is nothing wrong with how you feel. it's actually a good thing you are this way, because you'll definitely know the one your with is the right one.... (read in full...)

I want us to just, like, enjoy each other...? What should I do?

Q.   I am 23 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now. He is an extraordinarily understanding, generous, loving kind of person and I consider myself very lucky. I lost my virginity at age 17 and have been with a grand total of...

A.   18 September 2011: don't take it to heart, I'm just a kid. i think he will come around when he is ready. just wait for him. you are handling this kind of situation very well unlike a lot of people i know. personally i wouldn't do it unless i was married first, but ... (read in full...)

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