Why won't my husband sleep with me?
Q. My sex drive seems out of control. My husband doesn't really like to have sex with me as much as I think I need. Not only that, but when I do have sex with him, I feel disappointed. He has never been able to make me orgasm. He is the only person I ...
A. 7 December 2009: Are you sure his work is not stressful - Laborious, long hours, a bullying boss? Does he get to eat dinner before you pounce on him? Just asking, cos the guy just sounds stressed out to me.... (read in full...)
Am I being unreasonable not wanting them to meet up?
Q. Hey guys! Well basically I met up with an old friend as he was tutoring me for my end of year exams. We got pretty close and have ended up sort of seeing each other. Well we act like a couple, but were not officially going out.. I guess were still ...
A. 3 December 2009: Don't mention it again, but if she does, tell her he's too busy to help her. If she keeps pestering you then maybe she should ask him herself.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that I'll be alone my whole life.
Q. I know this is probably a very common question, but I'm just gonna go ahead anyway. I'm afraid that I'll be alone my whole life. I've never had a boyfriend or anything, and I don't think any guy has ever liked me. I'm not very pretty, and I re...
A. 3 December 2009: I had my first boyfriend at 23, and by them I was already out of the university and working. Don't feel bad, just work on your appearance, your manners and your confidence and get busy. When you are busy and out there, guys will notice you. How ... (read in full...)
I am love with a co worker, and don't know how to let her know!
Q. hello i need help on this i am in love with this coworker but she work in front of the house i work in the back how can i tell her i am in love with her? or ask her out? i dont want to ask her at the job. but how can i do this? she is single! ...
A. 3 December 2009: Start with a simple hello and a chat during your lunch break. Allow the chat to move into stuff you like to do and then ask her what she likes to do. Of it may take time for her to feel comfortable chatting with you but if she really likes you, then ... (read in full...)
He had a huge affect on me but I know it'll go nowhere, please help!?
Q. Last year, during a camp I attended, I met the most amazing guy. He is by far the one I ever adored so much. He's good-looking, friendly, nice, plays various instruments, sings like an angel (as cheesy as that might sound), athletic (he plays a lot ...
A. 3 December 2009: Now I do not agree with your last statement, there are thousands of immaculate Christ-like guys in the Christian fold. You are simply suffering from a mega crush and this is because you have too much time on your hands for day dreaming and stalking. ... (read in full...)
How to get over him when he is always around?!
Q. I like a guy I met at university about 2 months ago. We instantly clicked and became really close when we met. We started seeing eachother but unnofficially after about 2 weeks, so we wouldn't jump into anything too soon seeing as we still couldn'...
A. 3 December 2009: He's Naaaasty! I think you need to stop talking with him at all. He sounds like a very nasty and childish person. Just ignore him for a while, he'll probably go away when he gets tired of playing games with your head.... (read in full...)
Need advice on dating women. I'm starting a bit late at 25!
Q. I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong i...
A. 3 December 2009: First off, stop watching porn, most women find it a major turn off as it tells them they are not good enough for you. Second, meeting people may be planned, frequenting places where you are likely to meet your type and possibly indulge in activity ... (read in full...)
Blood drops in my urine, what could this be?
Q. hi this morning i had blood drops in my urine after 3 to 4 drops the urine went clear this happened the whole day i went 8 to 10 time to urine each and every time what could be the reason.please help i am afraid.i havent masturbated for ...
A. 3 December 2009: If your try to treat this at home the you might as well say "bye bye" to your hopes of fathering children for ever. Go see a Doctor, PLEASE!... (read in full...)
I don't know why my husband doesn't care for me... even when I love him so much...
Q. I dont know why my husband doesnt care for me. Even when I love him so much.. He doesnt want to help me. He doesnt see my love either. Some times i Feel he is too tied up with his work.. And thats the reason a NO from him for everything.. But Even ...
A. 2 December 2009: Did you do something to make him act this way? Are you the clingy, whiny, needy, demanding type? If you are, then you probably need to become more independent of the guy, don't rely on him for your happiness. But if you are none of the above, you ... (read in full...)
Why is she now like this?
Q. Hello I think the honeymoon period is over in my relationship. After a wonderful 5 months my girl has changed. She is happy for me to see buddies, my family and is not the jealous type but in other ways I feel so criticised She says I put the d...
A. 2 December 2009: Looks like she's ready to marry, but you aren't showing signs of popping the question. Also, she loves you so much that she's trying to make you into her Mr. Perfect. Anyhow, if you don't like how she addresses you just tell her politely. But if you ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son!
Q. My dilema is that I am currently 38 1/2 weeks pregnant and I'm afraid that my husband will never look at me the same if he witnesses the birth of our first son. He says he does not want to see anything and will just stay up north during the ...
A. 2 December 2009: It seems you would not be comfortable having him in there. So it's a mutual feeling. You could instruct the nurses to keep him out.... (read in full...)
Should I force myself through another semester at a college I hate?
Q. I know this is a relationship help site... but I really need advice and I love the advice the agony aunts (and uncles) give here... so I'm hoping someone can help me out here. I am a freshman in college and I am miserable. I don't like the college...
A. 2 December 2009: Hang in there. I can assure you that once you start making money you will not want to return to college. Just follow it through.... (read in full...)
I snooped on my boyfriend, should I confess?
Q. I did a really silly thing and snooped on my bf, and found out his ex is pregnant. We have been seeing each other for 6 weeks, however the relationships been pretty intense and we've already discussed long term commitment. In fact I can truly sa...
A. 2 December 2009: Now don't be in a haste, maybe he's not the father but she feels he is the only one she can confide in. Don't do anything rash, but watch him for any suspicious behaviour.... (read in full...)
On and off boyfriends...
Q. okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 ...
A. 2 December 2009: Actually, I'm sorry I came across so harshly. I just wanted you to see things the way someone from the outside would see it. The two relationships hold no future for you, really. I wish you the best.... (read in full...)
Why do boys always mess me around?
Q. The other night one of my friends said something that really made me think. He said; 'Oh Jess, why do guys always mess you about? :(' Which made me think, why do they?! All my last relationships have ended badly. And I dont know what im doing ...
A. 1 December 2009: Think really deep, you may be sending out some negative signals. Also you may be giving them sex too early, finally you may not really know what a relationship entails. I have cousin who is actually nasty and verbally abusive towards her dates, they ... (read in full...)
I have set myself a pattern that I find I cant break
Q. ive had 2 relations both onli lasting 18 months!!! they get serious an they say i love u an they give me everything i want an i run 10 miles in the other direction!then wen i see them with a new girlfriend all happy i want them back?but i no ill b...
A. 1 December 2009: Maybe you need to go to a church and get a pastor to pray you out of this rut. Seriously, it'll hurt you in the end.... (read in full...)
He is my friend but wants to be more
Q. Hey dudes i need ur help!! i have this guy whos a really good friend but he keeps telling me that he has feelings for me, when he is really drunk he starts telling everyone that we wud make a really nice couple and people totally disagree and the...
A. 1 December 2009: If he is really cool, you could give dating a try you know? But on the more realistic side, he has major issues which are obvious to everyone an that is the simple reason why he turns you off and no one wants to date him. Why not get one of your ... (read in full...)
This is not what I want... but I love him, why am I feeling this way?
Q. Sorry about the details of name being conor and being male. A friend set this up for me. I'm actually female! Anyway my question is: I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 10 months. We've had several split ups but always 'kissed and made-up'...
A. 1 December 2009: Take a pen and paper and write down what you want from a relationship. Choose the top five you absolutely can not compromise. Then write down what attracts you to your man. Compare the two lists and decide on that basis. Good luck.... (read in full...)
His new wife and I just don't get along. What's the best way to handle this?
Q. I have a new question, what I do? My ex is still in love with me, but i am not with him, it only goes as far as him staring at me at holidays ect, for instance we were married 19 years then i divorced him he was hitting me and jealous all the time. ...
A. 1 December 2009: In case i forget, you could ask your kids to instruct their dad not to bring her along next time. If they efuse, then you can stay away. Remember, your ex-husband and his wife are the offenders, not you.... (read in full...)
His new wife and I just don't get along. What's the best way to handle this?
Q. I have a new question, what I do? My ex is still in love with me, but i am not with him, it only goes as far as him staring at me at holidays ect, for instance we were married 19 years then i divorced him he was hitting me and jealous all the time. ...
A. 1 December 2009: They are your kids not hers. Your husband is the offender not you, do not under any circumstances allow this woman to drive a wedge between you and your children. I can tell that you are a quite sensitive person who doesn't like to kick up a fuss. ... (read in full...)
How do I reconnect with her?
Q. my question is how do i reconnect with a old girlfriend when she is much more succesful and attractive then me without being that friend. we just started talking again and it seems that she is somewhat intrested in me but i just dnt know since ive ...
A. 1 December 2009: Wait and be sure she's interested before you pop any questions or else she'll drop you like a ton of hot bricks.... (read in full...)
How do I overcome this and learn to feel better about myself?
Q. like 5 months ago a guy i reallllly like sat their after we came from a party where i got really drunk! he sat in his house with his friends and told them how he thinks im boring.. this still hurts my feelings up till this day. i dont know if ...
A. 1 December 2009: It's unfortunate that you got drunk that day, but what I think is that all those guys are not mature enough for you. Widen the scope of your friends and meet others outside you age group. Get active young lady - Get a gym membership and work out ... (read in full...)
On and off boyfriends...
Q. okay i have a big problem. I have been in a relationship for six years on and off, i met this guy the summer of 2005, when my boyfrind and i broke up we became good friends and he really liked me, I lost contact with him for like a year and 4 ...
A. 1 December 2009: You sound like you enjoy unprotected sex a lot. Are you aware of the health risks you're exposing yourself and your partners to? Why not for the sake of your child button up your pants for a while. I assure you it will help you gain some perspective ... (read in full...)
I feel there is so much still left unsaid between us, where do we go from here?
Q. Hi, I would really appreciate some advice. My ex and I were together for 6 years, all lovely at first but he was going through a divorce at the time which took a toll on him individually and us as a couple. It didn't help that he can be verbally...
A. 1 December 2009: Methinks your man is an absolute AC/DC nutcase. He's unstable and it's only a matter of time before he becomes Physically abusive. I think you should dump him and get someone else because if you continue with him, you will be doing all the giving ... (read in full...)
How do I change my jealous feelings?
Q. five months ago I ended it with my boyfriend of 7 years. He had a huge problem with drugs and could be aggressive and abusive. My family begged me to leave him and so finally I did. It felt a relief and I really felt I had moved on. That was until I ...
A. 1 December 2009: I guess we've all gone through what you're going through at some point in life, so rest easy, you're not alone. But I will appeal to you not to give up on yourself. Your issue is low self esteem and the way you can solve that is to get busy doing ... (read in full...)
We both have new lives but he wants to resurrect the old
Q. hi im really confused here dont know what to do this guy was my first boyfriend as you know relationships has thier ups-downs.iwas 14 years when we started dating and he was 25yrs ,as i was young lot of things happens between us until we end up ...
A. 1 December 2009: I'll be frank with you, your guy has MAJOR issues. He's a paedophile, he's got issues with self esteem and I suspect he's probably on some sort of drug that makes him act weird. I would advice you, to keep your distance from him, he is seriously BAD ... (read in full...)
How do I stop blaming myself for masterbating?
Q. Hi Cupid, i feel blame whenever i masturbate and am trying to stop this but is hard. i feel sexual sometimes. i masturbate in order to to get satisfaction. is there any way i can stop this. i don't want to wasting my sperm and I don't want to have ...
A. 13 November 2009: Mr. Man, ALL masturbators feel guilt, it's your mind's way of telling you what you've done is wrong. The sooner you stop it the better for your peace of mind. How? Ensure that when you are alone and tempted, you distract yourself with something ... (read in full...)
Friend with benefits, why is this such hard work?
Q. A few months ago I saw this guy I knew of through a friend while I was on a night out. Wouldn't have normally spoken to him but he spoke to me and we had a dance and a kiss and swapped numbers. The next week he text me literally non stop and we ...
A. 13 November 2009: Poor you. You obviously fancy him. Unfortunately he only cares about what you've got under you skirt and it seems even that is not very appealing anymore. If you have any form of respect for yourself at all. You need to cut all ties with this guy ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!
Q. Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...
A. 13 November 2009: Your guy is a first class bast**d who does not care for you at all. All i have to say is - RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! There are more sensible young men out there. And though I may sound old fashioned for saying this, I think you're not mentally mature ... (read in full...)
Can I ever find happiness again in life while I am still in this marriage?
Q. Been married for close to 12 years with 3 lovely girls. My husband is an orphan,he had nothing when we got married, i worked so hard to build our marriage, 3 years ago he started behaving funny, between 2006 and late last year he had slept with 4 ...
A. 13 November 2009: Baby love - I don't know which religion you subscribe to, but I'm sure you do not want to die young of a deadly STD or AIDS. Your man is using his own hands to tear your marriage asunder. I would say that for your health's sake and for your ... (read in full...)
Four years into marriage, and I feel I married the wrong man!
Q. I am married, and have been for four years. My husband is a wonderful man, but I'm beginning to feel that I just don't love him anymore. I was diagnosed with depression a few months ago, and despite care from my doctor, family and friends, as well ...
A. 21 August 2009: I'm really sorry lady. I know how it feels to be trapped in a relationship I absolutely do not want and yet can not leave. I also know how it feels to be depressed to the point that your health fails and you need to be placed on admission in ... (read in full...)
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