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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi Cupid, i feel blame whenever i masturbate and am trying to stop this but is hard. i feel sexual sometimes. i masturbate in order to to get satisfaction. is there any way i can stop this. i don't want to wasting my sperm and I don't want to have sex with a girl because i don't want unwanted pregnancy and disease until I get marry. please help!!!
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reader, tjazzy +, writes (13 November 2009):
Mr. Man, ALL masturbators feel guilt, it's your mind's way of telling you what you've done is wrong. The sooner you stop it the better for your peace of mind. How? Ensure that when you are alone and tempted, you distract yourself with something productive like reading, sports or manual labour
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): well you need to realize that there no point in blaming anyone for masturbating, its just a human sensation that our brains let off when we get aroused, ive heard restraining against mastrubation can have some pretty bad physical and psycological effects. so in all truth youre actually doin your body a favour, also it apparantly prevents prostate cancer so youre also investing into your life
what your doing is like blaming yourself for your brain sending billions of signals around the body in order to keep it running and moving properly
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009): Being a women not sure exactly what your saying about blaming you self so here is what I say. There is nothing wrong with masterbation(most guys AND girls do.) Dont worry about wasting sperm like doublem said you have unlimited so it will keep producing. Everyone has these sexual urges and sometimes you just need to release them. Dont worry its natural and you dont at all needing to blame.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (1 November 2009):
 It is a perfectly normal thing to do, and actually healthy because, in lieu of sex with a woman, your biological system is nevertheless being utilized. Do not worry about wasted sperm because you will create trillions and trillions of them during your lifetime - probably more. Sperm is constantly replenished, and when not expelled by some kind of sexual activity within a reasonable time, it is simply reabsorbed by your body and more is produced.
In other words, as long as you are healthy and alive, your reproduction capabilities are unlimited, and whacking off on occasion is totally normal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): Hi, im cupid(well, one of them). Most boy masturbate. Its natural. And it DOES NOT waste sperm. Its also a good to avoid intercourse until marrige. The is no way of stopping sexual feelings, they are a part of you man.
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