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hiya!

I'm someone who likes giving advice to people and sypathizing for there problems. even though I'm still quite young, i try to help anyway i can!

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I love him from afar ...

Q.   Hi you see cupid i go to this place and i meet lots of people and there is this one guy who is... amazing he is perfect. he makes me nervous but makes me feel like i should be who i am around him it breaks my heart to be without him and its like he ...

A.   21 July 2012: well, I think it's clear you obviously on some level want to tell him how you feel. Here, I feel, if you tell him how you feel, there are three possible things of what can happen: 1. He doesn't feel the same way and from then on your friendship is s... (read in full...)

I love him from afar ...

Q.   Hi you see cupid i go to this place and i meet lots of people and there is this one guy who is... amazing he is perfect. he makes me nervous but makes me feel like i should be who i am around him it breaks my heart to be without him and its like he ...

A.   21 July 2012: well, I think it's clear you obviously on some level want to tell him how you feel. Here, I feel, if you tell him how you feel, there are three possible things of what can happen: 1. He doesn't feel the same way and from then on your friendship is s... (read in full...)

What can I do now to slowly start things up again?

Q.   hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever ...

A.   4 July 2011: thanks so much for your advice and support :) :D... (read in full...)

What can I do now to slowly start things up again?

Q.   hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever ...

A.   3 July 2011: again...another problem...he doesn't have facebook...also i dont really wanna ask someone for his number...won't that seem...kinda stalker-ish and desperate?? ... (read in full...)

What can I do now to slowly start things up again?

Q.   hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever ...

A.   19 June 2011: the problem is, its been 2 years so i dont know if he has the same phone number and i DID send him a text but he never answered so i dont know now...:/... (read in full...)

What can I do now to slowly start things up again?

Q.   hey, well, almost 2 years ago i was going out with this guy. he was really sweet and i liked him a lot but i stopped things because i didnt think i was ready to go further. anyway, since then we have talked occasionally, but i dont think i'v ever ...

A.   19 June 2011: the problem is, its been 2 years so i dont know if he has the same phone number and i DID send him a text but he never answered so i dont know now...:/... (read in full...)

What can I do to make him notice me?

Q.   ok. so, i really like my friends brother. he is 15 and 2 classes above me at school. im 14. the problem is that my other friend also lkes him. and she is a lot more confident and can just go up to him to talk to him. i know i should try to do that ...

A.   3 November 2010: thanks guys!! ur answers are really helpful and i hope i do the right thing!... (read in full...)

I like my best friend's big brother!

Q.   I'm 13 and I like this guy whose 15 and he's really nice and cute. I know he likes me because his friends tell me and he is always looking at me, he'll b waitin for me at the bus stop and he'll stand at my locker for ever waitin for me. Also when ...

A.   19 October 2010: well, its obvious that you guys like eachother. you shouldnt be intimidated by the fact that it is your best friends brother. if you feel that maybe your friend will b uncomfortable with the situation then talk to them. i bet they will have no ... (read in full...)

How do I get my dad to realize that my stepmother is the problem too?

Q.   hiya, two years ago my dad got re-married and i HATE her. i've written about her before but then it wasn't so bad. she doesn't do anything to me but her even BEING there is awful. i have told my dad this many times but he always takes HER side. sa...

A.   11 April 2010: hiya, your answers have REALLY helped me just to realize what i'm doing and that what i'm doing is wrong. i WILL try to improve myself and i WILL write that dearCudpid letter from my stepmums point of view (a suggestion from Tisha-1). THANKS FOR ... (read in full...)

I don't feel like I can tell my mum I have got my first period.

Q.   hi, im 13 and yesturday morning, i had blood in my knickers, which im sure was my first period. at first i panicked, but then i calmed my self down and used tissue. i dont feel i can talk to my mum about it just yet, but im worried that it will get ...

A.   9 April 2010: i think you should talk to your mum about it. just tell her and she will help you and answer any questions u have. you shouldn't be embarised about your first period. the amounts of blood you get can be different every day of your period. my firs... (read in full...)

Girlfriend nervous with anything sexual.

Q.   I am 14 and my girl is 13 and she is scared to even look at me when i take my shirt off and we have only kissed but she is nerves about sex what do i do? ...

A.   6 March 2010: i think it's pretty natural for your girl to feel that way. although i dont really understand why she can't you without a shirt, 13 is just too young to have sex for her. she is not ready and if you push her, you might lose her. be a good guy and ... (read in full...)

I have never had a gf I don't think I have the courage to ask any one out... can some one help me?

Q.   ok well im 13, atheist, and i have grown up closer to girls than guys, so i know alot more about jr. high/ early highschool feelings and though processes than most other guys (yes i grew up with a single mother) i have one friend that is ...

A.   3 February 2010: ur 13 and your worrying about that?? I'M 14 and iv havent had a bf let alone been out on a date! i think you a) calm down first b) think bout which girl you like more and if you feel you would like to do something with her on her own c) ask ... (read in full...)

Should I ask a sophmore out?

Q.   I am fourteen years old, and there is this really pretty, and nice girl who sits next to me in Geometry. She is a sophmore and turning 16 in February. Should I ask her out? I feel like she flirts with me, but it might be wishful thinking. Please ...

A.   23 December 2009: i think u should as said above you've got nothing to lose even if she says no it means that you have the answer to your question and you can stop obsessing about what to do just take a chance and maybe she'll say yes and everything will be great... (read in full...)

13 and addicted to porn!

Q.   Hello I am 13 years old, but I'm addicted to porn. It sounds bad and my family knows I am, but I can't help but keep going back!!! I have tried everything, but it doesn't work! I have been in trouble with the family because of this. I need help but ...

A.   23 December 2009: ask yourself : y am i watching this in the end u won't find many good reasons tell yourself: i dont need this. AT ALL!! meet up with friends find a sport u like and get addicted to THAT!! make it clear to urself that u DONT NEED IT!!!! hope ... (read in full...)

Can't stop thinking about my neighbor!

Q.   i have known this boy for about 3 years, he was my neighbour and i loved him so much and still do, i cannot get over him its impossible for me. we never went out but we wernt mates either, it was weird . i just love him so muchhhh. i dunno what to ...

A.   8 November 2009: i think you should start off by having a conversation with him. by what you wrote, it seems like you can't really have a proper convo with him, but you should. then if he responds go a bit further... if you then feel that he IS using you, then you... (read in full...)

How often do girls fantasize about their boyfriends?

Q.   Ok this is a serious question. Im just curious here...... I, being a guy can honestly say I fantisize sexualy about my girl friend every day. I am not a sex pig. I am very considerate and a caring bf. I am just curious.... how often do you girls ...

A.   28 October 2009: i think girls do fantasize alot. the thing is is that when a girl is in a realationship, they will be daydreaming practicaly all day about there bf. along with all the daydreaming, they will be fantasizing about their bf sexually as well... hope ... (read in full...)

Can online romance be real?

Q.   Hi everybody. I just want to ask you guys question. Do you guys believe in online love? I met this guy who have same birthday,same satuition about pass relationship and almost everything are same.We chat on the internet for couple times. Yesterday ...

A.   28 October 2009: i think you can believe at first that you are in love with them but later on find (if you meet them) that you don't. i think it can work. my dad found his second wife online and they are really happy together. i think the best thing now is to ... (read in full...)

I am a horny virgin but I don't think I am ready for sex!

Q.   im 15 and i keep feeling horny, but i havent had sex before what do you think i should do? i want to have sex but at the same time i dont think im as ready as i think, but i keep feeling horny. Help me please....

A.   24 October 2009: 15! you are not going to have sex now! wait till your 17 and then see i think masterbation is the best way. i think its not that unusual for girls your age to feel like that... (read in full...)

Boy equals Stupid.

Q.   Theres this guy that I really like. He likes me back. But he wants to ask me out, but this guy in our class who is retarted and hated by everyone made fun of him for liking me. Im not ugly at all, normal weight, popular... (if that matters?) He a...

A.   24 October 2009: I'm not really sure what he is doing either. maybe he is confused, boys often are. i think that you should ask him about it. not directly, but just see what he does. if he likes you as much as he says then why dont you guys go out? maybe there h... (read in full...)

I'm 15, he is 26. Is this bad?

Q.   right well im 15 .. and ive been going out with this lad who is 26 ... but ive been with him for nearly a year .. and where so happy .. he treats me like a princess and buys me what i want and loves me loads ... and evryone says im a very mature 15 ...

A.   23 October 2009: You say that you guys are happy together. well, thats good! you guys might not have any problem stayin together. However, arnt you still at school? and where is he?? if you want to go to univeristy will he wait for u?? just keep this in mind: i... (read in full...)

How can I make this boy like me?

Q.   I realy like his Boy..I talk 2 him..But i dont now if he likes me..So can you help me gett him 2 like me..?...

A.   23 October 2009: i think dat you should talk 2 him a bit more....become his friend...good friend...and then see if he feels da same way. if he doesnt then dats just crap. GOLDEN RULE "never have depresions about boys. its not worth it. if he doesnt like u, he doe... (read in full...)

I want to make a boy notice me

Q.   i want a boy to relieze im alive! HOW DO I ACCOMPLISH THAT? show some girl her love and respond!!!!!!!!!!!...

A.   23 October 2009: boys want to seem cool, but sometimes they are just shy to come over and talk 2 you themselfs. sometimes its just easier if you (the girl) take control and go talk 2 the guy. even that will impress him! coz itll show him that ur not afraid to ta... (read in full...)

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