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He calls me 'babe' and 'doll', do you think he likes me?

Q.   Okay, so theres this guy in my drama club. we'll joke around and stuff and we're good friends. Lately, I've been catching him staring at me, and when we talk, he calls me 'babe' and 'doll' But i dont know if he likes me or not.... ...

A.   5 November 2010: i have to say, being an active member of the drama club that there is a very good possibility that he is gay. although both of the terms "babe" and "doll" are often used in romantic situations, gay guys also use them a lot. and pretty much like 70% ... (read in full...)

He can go 2 days without contacting me! Why?

Q.   my bf will last up to 2 days without texting me, n if he does, he doesnt say much, n sometimes he doesnt even respond. still like tat, he says he loves me. what should i dooo???? hes not going to change. ...

A.   11 October 2010: 2 days? common now. my ex boyfriend would go 2 weeks without talking to me, and when he did, it was never more "lol"'s and "cool"'s. so you can relax that he isn't glued to his phone to talk to you.... (read in full...)

I can't stand that my boyfriend smokes marijuana. what do I do?

Q.   So this summer my boyfriend of over a year has recently started trying drugs and partying, etc. He's a year older than me, so he's off at college and doing more stuff. This really really bugs me, as an understatement. I can't even describe how much ...

A.   6 September 2010: i was in a situation similar to this, except it wasn't my boyfriend, it was my best friend. i understand completely how it could bother you. tell him, if he really cares about you, that he'll stop. and threaten to break up with him. because if he ... (read in full...)

He treats me better than my boyfriend, should I switch?

Q.   In summary, I'm a girl, who can't make her own decisions, so I could really use your advice... I've been dating this guy for the past nine months. I really care about him, but our relationship hasn't really been the best. He's been spending al...

A.   21 July 2010: honeypie, i do care about them both. its just that i was trying to give all the facts, so maybe thats why it came off that way. i've just been trying to figure this all out for a few days now, and i figured i'd get an outsiders opinion.... (read in full...)

Was he joking or was he serious?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost five months, and to this point we have had a very slow paced relationship. but last night, we were texting and he started talking about sexual topics, at first he kept putting jk or saying just playing ...

A.   25 February 2010: so i talked to my boyfriend last night asking if he was serious or not. he said that he really didn't know either if he was joking or not. but he said whenever i'm ready, he is.... (read in full...)

I need relationship advice fast. Please ... :(

Q.   Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. We both love eachother but she lies to me so much about such little things for no reason. Well, anyway the big problem is today she said she was going to meet another guy and how ...

A.   24 February 2010: If she lies to you, then she isn't worth keeping around anyway. who knows what else she lying about?... (read in full...)

In love with my gay friend...

Q.   I am in love with my friend (we are both gay men), I met him about 8-9 years ago, on my part it was love at first sight and as I didn't want it to be a one night stand, I decided to get to know him better before 'making my move'....... 9 years later ...

A.   24 February 2010: well if you and him were REALLY as close as you say you are, then something like this should not change the relationship.... (read in full...)

Please someone help, I'm scared I'll fall pregnant!

Q.   please somebody, im begging you for urgent help :( im due on my period on the 3rd march, but tonight (23rd) i had sex with my partner and for some stupid reason i had unprotected sex with him - we never do, please don't ask my why :( he didnt pul...

A.   24 February 2010: If i were you, I'd get the morning after pill to be safe. Better safe than sorry.... (read in full...)

I want to seduce my 16 yo son's friend

Q.   I am a 45 year old with 2 kids a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. My son has a friend who is always at our house. He's very cute. Whenever my son isn't around we flirt with each other. Yesterday I bent down to put a pan in the cabinet and my ...

A.   6 December 2009: i have to say, being in the same age bracket as your son's friend. even if i was attracted to my friend's parent, i wouldn't flirt with them. thats very creepy and illegal. and if my friend's parent hit on me, i would tell an authority to get them ... (read in full...)

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