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Brother exposed himself to me when we were younger. Did my parents not take enough action?

Q.   when i was younger me and my younger brother were very close. we did everything together, told everything to eachother. When i was about 14 and my brother was 13 he was going through puberty and was very confused. one day when we were alone he ...

A.   2 December 2010: If it had become something more serious then yes i think your fiance would have the right in a way to say that you houldn't be around your brother, but really this is a fairely minor thing. Your parents did handle it, it didn't happen again, noth... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of my pubic hair?

Q.   Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I gave a embarrassing problem. I have shaved my pubes many times (with different methods) but I always end up with a shaving rash and ingrown hairs. I have senstive skin so I can't use hair removal creams. I'm so ...

A.   2 December 2010: Um ok i have a solution! Every guy does think that us girls have to shave down there, because it is more attractive more appealling etc And honestly i find that no pubes are actually nicer, although obviously once you start the faster the hair gro... (read in full...)

Girlfriend has a low sex drive

Q.   I'm 27 and I've been with my girlfriend, 26, for almost 3 years. I love her, but there is a big lack of sex; averaging once a month or less ( we sleep together almost every night). In fact we never really had a lot. Every once in a while, we would ...

A.   1 December 2010: Ok i'm sorry but some of the answer above here are absolutely horrible, do not break up with her just becasue you don't get enough sex that is absolutely horrible!!! sex isnt everything, but i know the feeling of feeling unfullfilled in that area... (read in full...)

Does a guy mind if his girlfriend has pimples?

Q.   Will a guy mind if his gf has pimples? Like more pimply now?...

A.   1 December 2010: if already bf and gf then the thing whether he likes her or not is already clarrified, so it shouldnt matter, and most people arent too shallow about "outer beauty" etc. personality and intelligence and values and interests are the real things that... (read in full...)

Girls, what turns you off?

Q.   Girls what is a major turn off about a guy? Is it appearance? Smell? What?...

A.   1 December 2010: haha this question is gonna get so much difference, cos what some people find turn ons are turn offs and vise versa but here is mine from off the top of my head. 1. liars 2. bad hygeine/self care 3. unreliability, like if you are meeting up s... (read in full...)

Need advice about pictures to send to boyfriend or not???

Q.   I have a problem because i'm rather inexperienced in this issue. My boyfriend lives overseas, and his birthday is coming up. I want to send him something personal. So pictures. But i don't know what the pictures should be of, or poses, like i do...

A.   1 December 2010: thank you to all of you that answered! i really appreciate it and it really gave me the direction of what to and i'm def not doing this :) sometiems you just need someoen elese to make things clear for you even if you half know yourself th... (read in full...)

If she was sexually abused, is she still a virgin?

Q.   So my girlfriend was sexually abused at the age of 13. Anyway, her and I were thinking of taking things to the next level. She says that she feels bad cuz she isn't a virgin cuz of what happened to her. I was just wondering if she is still conside...

A.   1 December 2010: I know everyone has answered this But i just wanna share My boyfriend thinks that i am still a virgin, because yes i have had sex (been sexually abused as a child/along with being raped numerous times) but because i didnt choose it, i didnt wa... (read in full...)

He's a great guy and I want to give him something that shows how much I care!

Q.   okay so ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost a month (he asked me out at homecoming how cute:)) and i have no idea what to get him for christmas!! well okay we are both freshmen and he wants to play football and baseball next year for...

A.   1 December 2010: Umm idk if its too soon into the relationship but i think something personal and heartfelt is always a nice gesture. Like what i mean is soemthing that you make, and give it to him, i'm hoping other people with more knwoledge about buying stuff give ... (read in full...)

Can upper classman date freshies?

Q.   Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, ...

A.   1 December 2010: Ummm ok i live in australia so we don't have the whole "freshman" stuff, so i don't really know what age gap you are talking about. But i'll give you my opinion anyway, just for the fun of it lol :) what comes down to it really, that you find him... (read in full...)

My best friend has cut me out of his life and I am heartbroken! What do I do?

Q.   Ok to cut a long story short, me and my friend have been very close for 3 years, there has been laughter/heartbreak/anger/passion everything, I fell for him and he didn't feel the same so he stopped talking to me because he didn't want to hurt me, ...

A.   1 December 2010: To add on to the above, this reminds me of an old psychological theory which was originally used to describe childlike behaviours but also reflected well in an our adulthood too. The theory is that, and it's quite simple lol, that for example if you ... (read in full...)

New boyfriend and his ex-issues, should he keep talking to her?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating about 6 months. He was on again off again with his ex and finally ended it for good in march. They were still in contact every day and she lives close. She doesn't like me at all and has been trying to get him ...

A.   30 November 2010: Ok problem is with putting a question like that on a site like this is you are going to get different answers giving you things that you should do. Which since you are doubtful and uncertain what to do already lol i don't think is really helping but ... (read in full...)

Can someone who's cheated, have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on?

Q.   Can someone who has cheated on their partner have a healthy relationship with the person they cheated on? Specifically if they never confess that they cheated to their partner? Can they marry that person and have a good, solid marriage, by withhold...

A.   30 November 2010: It's not particularily a nice situation, i agree with the anon guy up there lol, lieing does and will create more lieing, and you will get so caught up in your own lies and turn into someone you don't know, trying anything and everything to keep ... (read in full...)

I really want plastic surgery because I hate the way I look

Q.   I really want plastic surgery because I hate the way I look, I dont like looking in the mirror because everytime I do, I feel like Im going to cry. What can I do to feel happier about myself?...

A.   30 November 2010: it does sound like you have some self esteem/confidence possibly even self worth issues. You are insecure about your body how you look, which i think is pretty common these days. We are the harshes crttics on ourselves more than others. Putting ... (read in full...)

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