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Would it matter if I wear the same clothes to a second date??

Q.   Okay, So I recently started dating this girl, she lives a fair bit away from me, (few hours) and I'm meeting her again soon for the second time. Do you think she will mind if I wear the same shoes? I know it sound's like a really stupid question, ...

A.   16 March 2008: shoes are fine, so are jeans, just change the shirt, ok! good luck ... (read in full...)

22, My mother is ruining my life! What should I do?

Q.   I have one more question for the day/night. Ok. My mother treats me like a 2 year old and I'm actually 22 and she baby-sits me and she won't let me do things like go out with my friends or anything. I have to come home at 10 or before she gets home ...

A.   3 February 2008: Wow your mother might have seperation issues. Are you a only child or the eldest i suggest you approch your mother and confront her about how you feel if you want to move out you can she is your mother but your old enough to take care of yourself ... (read in full...)

Depressed! My wife left me..help!

Q.   i have recently been divorced which i did not want its tearing me apart my lovely wife moved away i know the district but not an address i love her so much what can i do i'm sure i'm suffering from depression i do nothing else but cry all day and ...

A.   14 January 2008: firstly theres a differce between depreession and being sad. depression is not only when you cry or the time its when you dont care about anything anymore even yourself you also tend to loose your social life because you dont want to see anyone. if ... (read in full...)

My bf refused to be with me through my recent abortion and I feel 'let down' by him. He should've been with me...right?

Q.   Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, and it was all going really good..but i have just gone through with an abortion, one of the most horrible experiences of my life. i was so embarrased and ashamed of myself i only told one close ...

A.   14 January 2008: i think you need to let him know how you feel and sort it out ask him why he didnt wont to go, maybe because he didnt wont the baby maybe his trying to keep his distance as well. but talk to him about it. i would be very annoyed and up set if my bf ... (read in full...)

According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?

Q.   My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...

A.   13 January 2008: i think you should leave him. He probably only says he doesnt want you to sleep with other guys so you dont fall pregant thats just an excuse. I will give you a little bit of advice if he really cared about your feelings and really truely loved you ... (read in full...)

If I get pregnant, should I tell my mum or is it better having an abortion without telling her?

Q.   Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together For Over A Year and In September We Decided To Have Sex. Everything Was Fine When We Has Sex But The Other Day We Ran Out Of Condoms So We Had Sex But He Pulled Out When He Was About To Cum. The Only ...

A.   5 January 2008: makesure you are first go to the docters and get a pregnacy test first then talk to her about it. ... (read in full...)

Could you all tell me about your sex lives please?

Q.   I'm just being nosy and curious, I suppose, but I just wanted to know about peoples sex lives. Of course, most people will make out that they have sex every night, they do this that and the other... But really...There must be some peop...

A.   5 January 2008: everyone is different depending on how often you get horny. my bf and i go through phases 3 times a week sometimes 1 or none just depends on what you want. i mainly do it at night only because of my parrants are in the house but when there out ... (read in full...)

I really want to . . . but I don't know if he wants to . . . help me get over this lol!

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now.. and i am a really horny girl lol when ime on my own i masterbate alot and well lets just say i really like it BUT when im with my boyfriend i am really body consious i get paranoid that i wont do ...

A.   5 January 2008: i was exactly like you try doing stuff with him at night in the dark just like i did it helps self confidence grows slowly. sometimes guys wont make the first move if your ready for it then make the first move. ... (read in full...)

At what stage in our relationship should we be more comfortable around each other?

Q.   hi! well my bf and i went our on 3rd date coupld of days ago and it was still kind of awkward. we didnt talk much and it was kind of embarasing. i dont know if it should still be like this. please help thanks ellie xxx...

A.   5 January 2008: use both need to be yourself and do something that will get you talking a sport or activity that will get you going ask questions i felt like this aswell you get over it soon.... (read in full...)

What is the difference in "love" and being "in love"?

Q.   Hello. I've been seeing a wonderful girl almost 3 months and a third now, it's the longest i've ever had a relationship with anyone (how much of a stud am I?). Anyway i had liked her for months and months before i finally asked her on hearing that ...

A.   5 January 2008: Well im in love and th feeling that i get is someone who you couldnt picture your life without, without that someone everything wouldnt make sense, someone who you miss all the time someone who you can see yourself marrying, having children with ... (read in full...)

Am I the only one that gets jealous?

Q.   Hi girls, I need some help with tackling my jealousy. I get so jealous when my boyfriend speaks to another woman to the point where I feel sick to my stomach. I trust him but at the same time I feel that I'm not good enough and that he will che...

A.   5 January 2008: Your situation is exaclty like mine and my bf. you need to talk to him about it but be mature otherwise it will end in a aggrument, trust me ive learnt from experience aslo if your jealousy is really bad it will destroy your self confidence as it d... (read in full...)

I'm living a miserable existence. Must I put up with it just for the sake of our daughter?

Q.   Can anyone help?I've been with my o/h for 10 years and we have a 5yr old daughter.Before our daughter was born he was kind, considerate but sometimes a little moody.When i became pregnant although he said he was happy he changed.The occasional mood ...

A.   5 January 2008: My parants split up when i was 7 years old, i understand now that im 18 and glad that my parants did only because they are much happier and they are two different people. We are all happy now and all get along with each other. Im not a mother but im ... (read in full...)

How far do you have to go to be committed?

Q.   I've been with the same man for over two years and he says he wants to committ yet we both have trust issues actually we have a lot of issues but always say we love each other it'll be ok, My main one issue is : IS it ok to say you want to be ...

A.   5 January 2008: In my opinion i believe a relationship is built on trust and you need to trust your partner in order for them to trust you. trust works both ways. You can still be committed into a relationship and go out and have fun with your friends. If the ... (read in full...)

My daughter just turned 15 and is having sex!

Q.   dear cupid and everyone here, I have a daughter who has just reached 15 years old last month. She has just admitted to me that she and her boy friend have already had sex. I was terribly shocked and very very afraid and worried that maybe sh...

A.   5 January 2008: As a mother of course you would be very worried and concerned the question is did she use protection? if she didnt i suggest you take her to the docters and get a pregnancy test its the only way to find out. Also even if she tells you shes not ... (read in full...)

I have never been cheated on and I had imagined we'd be together forever. Should I excuse his infidelity?

Q.   So here is my problem, plain and clear: My boyfriend makes no god damn sense. I am 22 years old. I am in University for engineering with a 4.0 GPA. I work out 5-6 days a week and I weigh 125 pounds, I am in top notch shape. I keep every part of ...

A.   19 December 2007: i cant imagine how you feel but oviously his not deeply sorry because he has been doing it for 5 months, its not like it was a mastake because his been doing it for a while. I know what its like to be in love and get hurt bad but you can walk away ... (read in full...)

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