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My so called "best friend" tells the guy I like that I"m a slut!

Q.   I went to visit my so called best friend at her university for a few days in october. During that time I had immediately grew rather attached with her boyfriends mate. We clicked, had loads in common and sitting opposite ends of a couch for 5 hours ...

A.   19 January 2009: From what you are saying of her it doesnt appear that she is a true friend. True friends dont say stuff like that. I think she wants to get with him and that's why she is dissing on you. I would confront her if you want to salvage the friendship, ... (read in full...)

I don't trust my army guy

Q.   i went out with this boy for 2years and i loved him soo much we broke up beacuse i kept acussig him of cheating we then didnt talk for about a year and then he contacted me said how he still loves me and has not stoped loving me and he said he would ...

A.   19 January 2009: I am the wife of a soldier.He is currantly serving his third deployment and 19th year in the service.We have only been together two years, and married almost as long, but I still worry.I am always worried when someone sends him a care pack or emails ... (read in full...)

I'll use her this time, what do you think?

Q.   Male x gf who's 46 left me 13 years ago but still calls me and talks about moving back... she's married and it's her 2nd marriage since leaving me. She has bipolar and used to drink where she didn't know what she was doing. Sometimes that was a ...

A.   19 January 2009: She is not an object!! how would you feel if someone used you?... (read in full...)

I need some advice with my mother.

Q.   For the longest time I can't even remember when it started, I had a strong sexual attraction to my mother and I still do till this day. I have a girlfriend, she knows about this and sometimes she tells me to think of her when we have sex but for ...

A.   19 January 2009: Honey honey honey! First of all, this is far from normal, but there is counceling to help you with your thoughts.You are not crazy, dont ever think you are!! get some help before it goes too far.As for your girlfriend, she needs some serious help ... (read in full...)

My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts.

Q.   My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts. Even when we were dating she wouldn't let let me see them. She said they'll gross me out (she has a long scar one of them) and also she thinks she ...

A.   19 January 2009: I think she will eventually either tell you or show you what she is hiding from you.If she didnt trust you she never would have married you.I have alot of scars from my past, and it took me awhile to tell my husband where they came from, and I even ... (read in full...)

I am so confused, so hurt yet so drawn to this guy!

Q.   I met this guy online just over 2 years ago(about 3 months after my divorce was finalized) and we've had a on off relationship since then. The very first time he broke up with me after we slept together the first time because he is scared of ...

A.   16 December 2008: Sweetheart, this is my opinion. I know there are feelings but evidently he could care less. If you care for someone you don't belittle, tease, taunt, name call, ignore, use etc, love is supposed to be a good feeling. Seems like he is using you as ... (read in full...)

Inappropriate touching between step mother and step son!

Q.   I'm a 45 year old step-mother of a 19 year old male, and I've recently made a horrible mistake. For the past few weeks I've been flirting and teasing my step-son. My husband has ignored me for the several months now, and I just wanted some ...

A.   15 December 2008: no no no no no!this cant go on! 19 or not, he is family!!! and even tho 19, at your age he is still a kid.. you may be lonely, but thats what dildos are for! shame shame shame.... (read in full...)

If the Ladies helping here are "Agony Aunts", what are we.. "Agony Uncles"?

Q.   Hey Guys, Whole day of Serious Questions and Answers!! Let's make the mood Easy.. !! Everywhere I go in this Website I see, "Ask agony aunt for help" and stuff! Why is it too much into an Agony Aunt? Why has it always gotta be an Agony AUNT.....

A.   15 December 2008: yes, I guess you are...... (read in full...)

I think I have a bladder infection or something

Q.   Hello everyone, I have a question concerning my health. Lately I've been urinatingvery often, and I mean VERY often! I'm not pregnant and I am in a comitted relationship with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. We don't use protection because we trust...

A.   15 December 2008: Could be a urinary tract infection.. is your pee dark? if so it could be a kidney infection, or, ouch! a kidney stone. It doesnt matter if he says he isnt screwing around.. you can catch chlamydia and not know for awhile til the symptoms start...not ... (read in full...)

Any role playing ideas?

Q.   Hiya, Me and my bf love sex and we're really into role play like naughty maid and school girl etc. Does anyone have any other ideas we could try? We are gonna try a drama one where we walk into the room in dfferent roles and act out a wild love ...

A.   15 December 2008: what about playing doctor and patient? that would be cute?... (read in full...)

We don't want this baby!

Q.   hie.. my gf is 1 month pregnant.. we dont want to have this baby .. can u suggest me whether she has to go for an abortion or whether by taking some medicines or pills we can get rid of this baby????/ please reply at the earliest..thanx...

A.   14 December 2008: Please don't punish that poor innocent baby!! There are lots of people who want a baby and can't have one, like me. Check into adoption honey, abortion can hurt a girl to where it could kill her too or end her chances of every having another baby ... (read in full...)

What is wrong with me why can't I get a guy?

Q.   I'm a 25 year old girl and I really need help. I have really "bad luck" with dating. I never dated in high school, the only date I've ever been on was when I was 21. This guy treated me horribly - he said he was desperate for sex and then ...

A.   14 December 2008: youre so young yet.. there is someone for everyone, and you will find him.... (read in full...)

This has been bothering me for 23 years... was I raped?

Q.   I have a serious question that has been in my head for 23 years or so now. When I was 15, I went cruising around with a guy I had known for well over three years. I had one puff off a joint he offered me, and I also had a drink of his beer. I ...

A.   14 December 2008: Doing great now! just got married to a soldier 5/6/07! I am a mother, and I am just fine! I have a 15 year old son, who, is my best friend..and he is always saying"Mom, I promise I wont hurt any girls ever..and when I am older I will kick his butt, ... (read in full...)

This has been bothering me for 23 years... was I raped?

Q.   I have a serious question that has been in my head for 23 years or so now. When I was 15, I went cruising around with a guy I had known for well over three years. I had one puff off a joint he offered me, and I also had a drink of his beer. I ...

A.   14 December 2008: thanks to all who answered..I am fine now.. its just a nagging thought that is always there...I have been told by people "you cant rape the willing"..if you didnt fight it, didnt scream, didnt report it right away, and there were no injuries.. then ... (read in full...)

Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner?

Q.   This a rather silly question but maybe the answer will resolve a dispute between my bf and I. Is a man's orgasm more intense when he cums inside his partner? I've been with my bf for over 2 years. I never refuse him sex. I don't make him wear a ...

A.   14 December 2008: I dont know if his is, but it sure is for me..we end sex with him inside me usually and we come together.. I like that I can grip him while I am coming, its so hot!... (read in full...)

I've got myself so caught up in this its like my heart is breaking all over again, what do I do?

Q.   I've always thought of this guy as the love of my life, we weren't really together for that long under two years and that was almost ten years ago. Five years ago he contacted me and said he wanted me back that he still loved me had never stopped ...

A.   14 December 2008: My answer is one I had to endure once, and I didnt think I would make, but I had to.The answer? the heart and mind are seperate.The mind pretty much knows the truth, and accepts it. The heart? not so fast.. a heart is like a four year old child.. it ... (read in full...)

He said we can never be together but he won't leave me alone!

Q.   Back in June I ended up sleeping with a guy 15 years younger then me. He gave me the line oh don't catch feelings etc so I didn't I am 38 really don't plan on anything more from him. Well he started calling, texting and hanging out with me all the ...

A.   14 December 2008: Sounds like he is using you babe. I would cut all ties, and do it fast. I had a guy I was into who did me the same way. I fell in love with him too, but got my heart broken. I see him off and on, but I ignore him. I can't even look at him cause I ... (read in full...)

Confused about what happened...

Q.   I'm really confused about what happened with me and this girl I knew. A year ago, when we were still in high school, we had a class together and I fell for her. I sat behind her and we ate lunch together with some other people. Anyway, it got to be ...

A.   14 December 2008: Honey, I think something may have happened to her there in the beginning.The fact that she blew you off time and time again seems to be a trust issue of some sorts, or the fear of a relationship.. or perhaps she is just the shy type. I would let it ... (read in full...)

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