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I started answering questions on this site because I like to help others with their problems. I am 16, therefore I only answer teenage questions, as I feel adults would feel quite embarrassed if they were being advised by a 'child'. When answering, I go for the brutally honest approach, this may sometimes be harsh, but I am a strong believer in honesty, and I know I wouldn't want to be lied to or tricked if I was asking for advice. I tend to also ask questions in my answers, simply to get the writer to think and perhaps come up with their own solutions rather than relying on the thoughts of others which could hinder rather than help their situation, I always think the writing is not the full extent of the story and provoking thoughts is the best method of advice.

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Where have all the genuine people gone?

This question has 4 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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21 June 2011: So I clicked article just above the box I'm currently writing in, I believe RANT is the more appropriate word, but it's the nearest thing. So recently, over the past few months, I've noticed a huge change in a LOT of people. I don't know whether ...

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Been lying to everyone I care about my job

Q.   I've been lying to everyone about what I do for work. Not where I work but my position. I've told everyone my position is slightly above what it is. It's my first full time job out of uni and it's really down the bottom of the barrell and I th...

A.   19 April 2010: You shouldn't be ashamed, it's is hard to get a good job at the moment with the recession and whatnot. You should open up to your family, friends and boyfriend before they find out, it's better to admit you lied before you get loads more accusations ... (read in full...)

She told me she cheated on me and broke up with me, but I want her back

Q.   Me and this girl starting dating around valentine's day. She was my first love. I'm thinking this is the girl im going to marry. We were great for about a month and a half and one day she starts pushing me away. She told me I was clinging and she ...

A.   19 April 2010: This must be so hard for you, loving her but not knowing if you can trust her. But personally I think you should try and get over her. She clearly doesn't have the same feeling for you and you can't make her love you. You think about it, she cheated ... (read in full...)

My friend thinks I should talk to me ex-boyfriend, but I don't know if I want to

Q.   Hi, i dated this boy like 2 years ago and we went out for a pretty long time and got really deep in out relationship. when we broke up it was because of this huge dramatic thing that happened between me and my fake friends at the time. he broke ...

A.   19 April 2010: This sounds like peer pressure, your friend seems to want you to talk to him for some reason. You should think about why this is? Perhaps she wants you to be happy or is trying to get you back together? The sleepover: things may not be as awkward as ... (read in full...)

I want to end this relationship but don't want her to hate me

Q.   hi am currently in a relationship n am not happy its not the same as it used too be its the 3rd time that we have been out with each other bt this time is just different were both young but ive had enough but i dont want to break her /heart and her ...

A.   19 April 2010: I understand what you are saying, you don't want to hurt her because you still care for her, but you don't want to be with her, perfectly acceptable. You should try and break up with her nicely, justify your reasons, have a long chat about it and ... (read in full...)

First date went well but since then no contact??

Q.   hello everybody :) can u tell me what should i do?days ago, we had our first date, and everything went really well. but since then, she stoped talking to me, i allways had to begin conversations, and when i stopped talking to her she hasn't talked ...

A.   19 April 2010: It sounds like she's not interested, she may have acted like she liked you on the first date, but that may have been to make it comfortable and not awkward. This wasn't really a good thing to do, as it have obviously lead you on. I don't think this ... (read in full...)

I want to have sex with him so he will be happy but I'm scared it will hurt!

Q.   im going out with the same boy for three years he wants to have sex and im 13 and hes 15. im really stuck cuz i love him and i want him to be happy but im scared when i do it its gunna hurt and thats what im really scared of. plzz help me if you can ...

A.   19 April 2010: I think you're too young to have sex personally, and you shouldn't have sex to make him happy. He is older than you, so may be ready, but at your age I don't think you are. You may think you love him but considering you've been 'together' since you ... (read in full...)

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