Why would he ask for my number...say he will call and still not call??
Q. Well, I'm 18 and I met this guy who is around 33. I met him by chance and we started talking and well I know him a bit and it was pretty nice. He was really sweet and all and he had asked me if i was alone or witn company and where I lived, but unfo...
A. 16 March 2008: Any more advice? Blimey! You've already had more replies than than most questions.
Personally, I think you should give him just one chance & call him. But if he doesn't pick up, doesn't return your call, or if you decide not to call him, quit bot... (read in full...)
I don't let him finger me because of my natural lubrication!
Q. Hey, Well this might sound wierd but yeah.. My bf wants to finger me which im fine with BUT Im worried because I get a lot of discharge and I dont want him to notice it! I dont realy know if I get more than average, but this is realy stopping m...
A. 16 March 2008: Just tell him, "hey, baby, when we do this later tonight, I just want you to know that when I get hot, I get REALLY wet down there". Chances are that he'll go "woah! that's hot". Problem solved, job's a good 'un, he'll spend the next hours in ... (read in full...)
Love triangle confusion....who do I choose??
Q. Well the thing is...i like this guy, he sed he likes me too, but he has a girlfriend i dont know whether they would ever break up, seeing as ive never met her. This guy also has a friend and his friend likes me too and then they have another ...
A. 16 March 2008: Sleep with the "friends". Have fun, do what you want to do. If you wait on "might do"s and "maybe"s then you'll spend your life waiting. ... (read in full...)
Scared to have sex because they will think this is disgusting...but is it normal??
Q. I have quite big vaginal lips or clitoris or w.e it slightly comes out over the outside (only slightly).. I don't know what to do because im scared to have sex because they will think its disgusting, is this normal or not?? ...
A. 16 March 2008: Hi Alice,
We all tend to be a bit self-conscious about these things. When I was your age I worried like heck that my dick was too small. Now I know that it's "just the perfect size" (as one g/f has told me) and that if you're inventive it doesn't ... (read in full...)
We love each other but can't be together and I don't know what to do anymore.
Q. Me and my boyfriend really love eachother but the thing is that we cannot be together because of his religion. He is a Muslim, his parents are cool with it just not the rest of his family like uncles, cousins all those people and they all go to ou...
A. 16 March 2008: If you sacrifice your happiness for your family - or for anyone else - I can promise you a pretty shitty life.
Who cares what anyone else thinks? You two _can- make a go of this - I can't promise it'll always be easy, but some sacrifices are wort... (read in full...)
I'm not sure about my sexuality...
Q. Hi, I have a dilemma currently in my life. I'm not sure about my sexuality. I've always checked out guys as well as girls, but lately I find myself checking out guys more often but would never take that next step to go into a relationship with the...
A. 16 March 2008: It doesn't matter if you're gay or bi - just go with the flow and whatever makes you happy.
The problem here is that you're doing something which isn't hurting anyone and you feel guilty & shameful about it. You need to overcome the shame and the ... (read in full...)
I am trying to get my former lover to leave his wife.
Q. I am trying to get my former lover to leave his wife. Him and I had a fiery relationship for about 2 months while they were seperated and it was amazing. Him and I still talk a lot even though we know we shouldn't. I want him back dearly how ...
A. 16 March 2008: Regarding your follow-up:
Hmmmn... I'm unclear about your own marriage situation, but whatever.
I'm inclined to agree with you that he's made the wrong decision going back to a controlling wife that criticises him for everything, but it's his dec... (read in full...)
If he was not married, would he see a future with me? And if he does, will he ever divorce her?
Q. I can't really give a huge amount of information for obvious reasons, but I am in an unofficial relationship with my married art teacher which our entire school/college knows about. He is my best friend and I am genuinely in love with him, not a ...
A. 16 March 2008: Well, you guys obviously talk really well, and I would say you have a great relationship in many ways. But your teacher seems to have overlooked one important conversation, and he really shouldn't be leading you on like this unless he & his wife ... (read in full...)
Advice and thoughts on my girlfriend of 4 years breaking up with me for someone else.
Q. Ok well here is another break-up story. I never thought I would ever be writing this, but here it goes. I've been dating this girl for 4 years. She is 21 and I'm 26 so we've been dating since she was a senior in high school. we fell in love within a ...
A. 16 March 2008: After 4 years of a first-relationship "I need space" is a euphemism for "it's over". She's emotionally involved herself, so she can't admit that to herself, either, and she's in denial about blowing you out.
The next year's going to be really t... (read in full...)
There's this girl I have a yoga class who I think likes me.
Q. There's this girl I have a yoga class who I think likes me. After class, there is definitely a tension between us, but I think she expects me to make the first move. I'm not really sure what to do, I'm flattered that she likes me, and she has a ...
A. 16 March 2008: Stop being such a wimp!! Next time you talk to her after class just say "hey! let's get some coffee!", or "you wanna have lunch tomorrow?"
Unless you've got the front to do something about it then nothing's going to come of this "tension... (read in full...)
What does the word soulmate connotate to a man?
Q. Recently my new boss called me his soulmate. We have never been intimate, but we spend a lot of time together outside of work. What does the word soulmate connotate to a man? Further, he has never crossed any physical barriers with me. What...
A. 16 March 2008: You're right - it normally means lover, in the most ideal life-partner sense of the word. Without context it's impossible to say what he meant by it - maybe he was just kidding around - but if it's raising alarm bells then maybe you should talk to ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't know what to do and I surely don't.... Should I wait and give him time or should I just move on?
Q. I met this guy at a work function about 6 months ago. We got along great from the 1st day. At the end of the week I went back to my home and he went to his (a few hrs away from me). We talked just about every day since online and on the phone ab...
A. 16 March 2008: This sounds really tender, and I really hope it works out for you both.
Ever since my parents divorced - late - I have always felt that a bloke who would do anything for his kids is a bloke who would leave his wife if he's that unhappy. Kids can... (read in full...)
Why would he ask for my number...say he will call and still not call??
Q. Well, I'm 18 and I met this guy who is around 33. I met him by chance and we started talking and well I know him a bit and it was pretty nice. He was really sweet and all and he had asked me if i was alone or witn company and where I lived, but unfo...
A. 16 March 2008: He's a bloke. By this I mean that the chances are that Fade has hit it on the head, but there's also a chance that Eve's calling it all wrong. I admit there's a good chance that Eve's 101% on the mark, but most blokes couldn't organise a piss-up in ... (read in full...)
Do boys find girls with glasses attractive??
Q. heyy im just wondering, do boys find girls who wear glasses attractive? I know this may be a dumb question but i wear them and i havent had a boyfriend and im 15... :( but anyway, im just wondering! :D...
A. 16 March 2008: Woah, yeah! I love 'em! Want to feel empowered? Do a Google search for "girls in glasses" and click on images. This works best if you have safe search switched off - that's not the "smutty results", just the normal correct results without any puri... (read in full...)
Will love over rule sexual urges or will sexual urges over rule love?
Q. Please can you help, My beautiful partner used to swing with his ex, while I am open minded, I can't do this and I have told him so and he has said he would never make me do anything to feel uncomfortable. He said it's not the fact he never felt ...
A. 16 March 2008: Urges, smurges - those can be fulfilled with one hand tied behind your back. Love is what's valuable, and it sounds like this guy knows it. I've hung out on the BDSM scene myself, and can definitely take it or leave it - I'd never want any lover of ... (read in full...)
What can I say to her in conversation in order to get to know her better?
Q. Hi, I met this girl last year through a friend we have met about 2 times and i really like her, we talk on msn but not often bacause not to sure what to talk about?? I would like to build our friendship and get to know her better how should i do ...
A. 16 March 2008: Ask her about herself. Lots of open-ended questions. What did she do this weekend? Did she have fun? How are her family? Does she get along with them well?
If her replies are short or non-committal then forget it now - chances are she's either v... (read in full...)
I am trying to get my former lover to leave his wife.
Q. I am trying to get my former lover to leave his wife. Him and I had a fiery relationship for about 2 months while they were seperated and it was amazing. Him and I still talk a lot even though we know we shouldn't. I want him back dearly how ...
A. 16 March 2008: You should just quit now. "Home-wreckers" don't win, and the guy has already made his decision when he went back to his wife.
There are extra-marital affairs which are justified, which are a symptom of a bad marriage that the involved party sh... (read in full...)
Can I have insane sex with him and still have a chance at being his girlfriend? Or will he just see me as a whore?
Q. Ok, so a friend of an ex has been pursuing me for about a month, and the ex found out... and the ex took the idea to start coming on to me again out of jealousy or something (though his friend isn't exactly the most attractive). But anyway, he ...
A. 16 March 2008: I think that it's inappropriate to use the word "whore" negatively.
Hey! if you wanna be a whore in the bedroom, then go for it!
But to answer your question: no, things will not change if you carry on sleeping with him.
You don't say who... (read in full...)
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