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| Latest articles: Understanding Your Need for Attention
No replies yet... 19 September 2008: Are You A Female Attention Addict? If so, here is an example of a typical day in your life: It's morning, and time to put on my make up, fix my hair, and wear a new outfit. I'm thinking about the female friend I'll see today who'll comment on ...
Wanting a Guy to Lust After Us
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9 September 2008: Wanting Guys to Lust After Us It’s like an addictive fix, wanting a guy to lust after us. There is an adrenaline rush of pleasure when they lust after us; it makes us feel beautiful, like we are the only one on the planet. But there is a d...
A day in the mind of an attention addict
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6 September 2008: A Day in the Mind of an Attention Addict It's morning, and time to put on my make up, fix my hair, and wear a new outfit. I'm thinking about the female friend I'll see today who'll comment on how nice it is and I feel an adrenaline rush, Now I'...
Be careful about the shallow rules on dating!!
No replies yet... 27 August 2008: Dating Rules: Are they a Girl’s Worst Enemy? As women, we are bombarded by books, friends and the TV media telling us what dating “rules” to follow to determine whether a guy is treating us well. These rules tell us whether he’s Mr. Right materi...
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I'm so sick of all the 'getting drunk and having sex' situations!
Q. how can I handle this? Last night, i went out with my boyfriend and a girl friend. We were just trying to help her because she just broke up with her boyfriend and she wanted to have sex. By the way, her boyfriend was always hitting on me, an...
A. 27 August 2008: it's a good thing that you believe you are sick of it, but be really honest with yourself. You like getting attention from guys, you like hanging out with a girlfriend who has guys lusting after her while she lusts after them. Attention is like a ... (read in full...)
I'm haunted by things that have happened to me and now my mind is totally confused! Can someone help?
Q. I am in a total confused situation. I have been through a lot of problems, still it seems that my mind never learns from my experiences.... I guess my story is gonna be a bit long and boring but am gonna tell u my problems My father had always b...
A. 27 August 2008: Being haunted is a good way to describe how you feel. When you grow up with a verbally and physically abusive parental ubringing, you often mistake being controlled by an authoritative partner as being loved by them. The road you need to travel to ... (read in full...)
How do you challenge someone on an emotional level?
Q. So my previous stories tell how my ex and I got to this point. I met up with her a few weeks ago and we talked and had a pretty nice time it was a little awkward but it was ok. We got to talking and she expressed she was still angry with me for ...
A. 27 August 2008: "but she said she felt she grew herself but in the relationship but not because of anything I did". This kind of stuff hurts me because it makes me feel even worse for causing the end of the relationship but now she did not get anything out of it ... (read in full...)
How can I help him see how he is ruining not only his life by using and dealing drugs, but how he is also destroying our relationship?
Q. hey ive been with my boyfriend for about a year now. he has started dealing drugs which doesnt bother me but he is also using. he has got himself into alot of debt and he is so stressed and angry and i feel like he is pushing me away. he keeps ...
A. 27 August 2008: "he has started dealing drugs which doesn't bother me" oh, really? Deep down inside, all this bothers you,...his addiction, and his dealing, because it means he isn't dependable, and you have to take care of him emotionally. Who wants that? But more ... (read in full...)
I'm close to menopause and my libido is higher than ever at this point, why?
Q. late sex lover i am 49 years old, about to menopause...i wonder why at this point in my life i'm so hot and always want to have sex with my husband....before i'm afraid of having sex always due to unwanted pregnancy but now we have sex every o...
A. 27 August 2008: Enjoy this time in your life and stop feeling so guilty about it! I'm sure your husband would love to satisfy you as many times as you want him to. But beware, once this stage passes, which unfortunately it does, and you feel less into sex, and he's ... (read in full...)
After 2 years, she confesses to me she has cheated with her step-brother. I feel the whole time together was a lie now!
Q. I have been with a women for almost two years and finely after almost to years she has came out with the truth. that the first month we got together she had cheated on me with her step brother. i think its wrong i mean step brother or not they ...
A. 27 August 2008: As much as her morally questionable behavior with her step-brother bothers you, you have to put that whole issue aside. The real issue for you is about trusting her. You cannnot trust her and believe her and that's not just because of the step ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend wants kids but I don't, as I already have 2. I'm afraid she will leave me as warned.
Q. I am a divorced father of two children, 11 and 9 years old. My current girlfriend has never been married and would like to have children. She has pretty much given me an ultimatum, "have another child with me or our relationship is over." Quite ...
A. 27 August 2008: You are doing her a big disservice by dating her and leading her on. But why don't you want another child? Is it strictly based on financial reasons? If you truly love her and want her to be happy, have a child with her or set her free to find the ... (read in full...)
He claims his love for this other woman is just a friendship..I'm very confused...help!
Q. i have been married to my husband now for 10 years. I recently found out on the day of my 10 year wedding anniversary my husband was in love with another women. I found the message on his phone that said "i love you lots" now when i asked him about ...
A. 27 August 2008: "I love this man with all my heart, and i can agree that we have not been very kind to one another in the past, and we changed, and life caught up with us" It's time for you to look at your life, and not focus on how your husband treats you, ... (read in full...)
I like him but he has still has a gf and I didnt want to mess things up! Any advice?
Q. Theres this guy i know through an orchestra, iv only really know him prperly for 1 year. but ove that year weve become so close, and i now consider him by far one of my best friends. I never find it akward around him and we can always find somethin ...
A. 27 August 2008: "He is a very lovely person and wouldn't do anything to upset people". If what you say about him is true, why is he flirting with you and holding your hand when he still has a girlfriend? Is that lovely? No! The truth is, he makes you feel lovely ... (read in full...)
I don't want to hurt the guy that I'm with but I think I still love the ex that broke my heart. What should I do?
Q. last year,i was with this guy that i really loved..he broke my heart,it was hard forgetting him even that i've never forgot him!but it took me a lot of time to get used to the idea that it was over between us..every guy i met was like an enemy to ...
A. 27 August 2008: The guy you think you used to love is someone you actually feel is your enemy. Whenever we still feel feelings for a guy that "breaks our heart" we have to look at the relationship more honestly. Did he have commitment issues? Did he really love ... (read in full...)
How come I am not as hurt by his horrible behaviour as I thought I would be?
Q. a guy who has lied to you and lead you on for almost a year..has used you to get over someone else only to get back with that person. and then throw it in your face after wards..and talk about you badly to his associates when you've done nothing but ...
A. 27 August 2008: When you date a guy who is still emotionally attachd to another woman, you know it deep down inside. No matter how much he acts like he's into you, he will not do certain things that will keep him distancing himself emotionally. There is a strong ... (read in full...)
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