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My sisters husband forced me to have sex

Q.   i lost my virginity at age 12 with my sisters husband. i dident want to but he forced me. know i dont know if to tell my sister wat happend. wat should i do?...

A.   17 June 2008: I'm so sorry to hear this! This is rape, and he should be reported! I know, it's of course not something you particularly want to talk about or say to anyone, but he should be punished for this! Honey you were 12, and that's not fair! Rape is an ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks I'm only with him for sex...

Q.   Is there a way to decrease a persons sex drive? I'm horny all the time and it's causing tension with my boyfriend because he thinks I'm only with him for sex, I want to prove him wrong....

A.   17 June 2008: Hey =] Well have you tried just cuddling up together and watching a film? I know how you're feeling (really!) but just choose the times you really can't go without sex, and have sex then. Try not to feel the urge all the time if you can help it! ... (read in full...)

'Mam I just started my periods'. I just can't bring myself to tell her!

Q.   ok so i know most of you have heard about this situation before but i really do need help on this one. Getting to the point.....I started my periods a while back and i never told my mam coz i just cudnt get the words out, i managed fine as she had ...

A.   17 June 2008: Believe it or not, she'll probably be expecting it! You're the right age (judging from your age bracket) to be starting sweetheart so she won't be shocked. Every girl goes through it, and she'll be thinking of you as more of a woman! It's the start ... (read in full...)

My friend is after my girlfriend! What can I do?

Q.   one of my friends is hangin out wiv my girlfriend and puttin his head on her lap and being very obvious about it wot am i meant to do ...

A.   17 June 2008: Sweetheart, go talk to him! Ask him what he thinks he's doing! He has no right to act like that when he's your friend and it's YOUR girlfriend! It seems so immature too. You must feel very betrayed. Also, is your girlfriend acting all okay with ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin and only want sex but can't find a girl that will accept that

Q.   I am a virgin and it seems to me that im only attracted to women becayse of the sex but i cant find a girl to be with nthat accepts me the way that i am. ...

A.   17 June 2008: Ah sweetheart. It seems to me like you're just horny right now, miraculously are still a virgin (despite the apparent sexual desire!!) and now ready to finally let go and have sex. Am I right? Well to be honest with you honey, a lot of women ... (read in full...)

Am I spending too much time 'down there' on my guy or not?? What do you all think?

Q.   I don't know if this a problem or what! I LOVE to go down on my man(he loves it to). I think i can do it for HOURS(no joke). I love to make him feel good(that not the only way i can make him feel good). I really enjoys it also. Do you think i spend ...

A.   17 June 2008: If you love it and he loves it, then why not?!... (read in full...)

Do any women use vibrators to climax during sex with their partner...?

Q.   Does any woman use vibrators with there partner to climax??? any ideas for for positions to climax faster, it is hard with this new partner to climas without a small vibrator i use....

A.   17 June 2008: Hello :] Yes, I believe some women do use vibrators to help give more clitoral stimulation during sex. I'd say missionary position is the easiest position to use one in, as you are lying on your back. I notice SugarCookie mentioned doggy.. Wow, she ... (read in full...)

Is there any way you can tell your boyfriend loves you?

Q.   Is there any way you can tell your boyfriend loves you? I know i love my boyfriend and im pretty sure he loves me but is there any way you can tell for sure so im not just assuming it. thxx for any opinions!!!...

A.   17 June 2008: Hey! Well as Tremor mentioned, there is no love detector test, but there are a few common things you might see that show he loves you. Does he value your company? Does he listen to your problems and try to help? Does he care about you, and ask abou... (read in full...)

How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners??

Q.   How do men or women prefer to see the pubic area on their partners: shaved, trimed or with some sort of design?...

A.   16 June 2008: The age old question! It really does depend on the person.... (read in full...)

I don't believe that I'm pretty, is there something wrong with me?

Q.   im a slim light skinned girl,and everyone comments on how pretty i am but although i know they arent lying i myself dont believe i am.my boyfriend also says that im gorgeous and pretty but i still dont fink i am.is there somethibg wrong with me?...

A.   16 June 2008: Oh honey, I can't tell you how many times women must go through feelings like that! You are so normal, I cannot even put it into words. It's a horrible feeling, when you're looking at the media around you and trying to achieve this 'perfect' body ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I love her or just want her for sex?

Q.   how i know if i love her or just i need her for sex?...

A.   16 June 2008: Hey It seems to me like you're having a hard time figuring out if you really love her, and this suggests you don't. Do you enjoy her company when you're just cuddling or sharing interests, or just when you're having sex? Do you feel happy when you ... (read in full...)

First time worries: I heard it may be painful... what to expect?

Q.   Okay, i'm going to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time but i'm a bit nervous. I get the idea on here that it hurts, but others i have spoken to say it doesn't? How long could this go on for? ...

A.   16 June 2008: Hello sweetheart. You sure sound like you're worrying, do try and calm down a little. Losing your virginity is certainly not the most comfortable thing in the world, but can be a very pleasurable experience also. I presume you are very relaxed ... (read in full...)

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