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We're having an affair - he only talks about my physical aspects! Am I being used?

Q.   i have been having an affair for 1 year with a man who has a partner he tells me he loves her but, what does the but mean. also he says one thing but his actions show me something else, he has told me he is smitten with me he also cannot keep his ...

A.   5 June 2007: If your marriage with your husband isn't a marriage, then why did you stay around for 30 years? secondly, there is a good way and a proper way of doing things or a wrong way. Why don't you discuss the situation with your husband and try and improve ... (read in full...)

Repeat of a 3-some!

Q.   Is it possible for me to get my wife to have sex with another man,she has done this one time before for me and I have a fetish about that.thanks for your advice...

A.   1 June 2007: I have heard so many people say this, especially men about fetish of 3-some, but you need to ask yourself some questions. Firstly, does your wife want to, is it something she wants, or r u just being selfish?secondly,you should always remember that ... (read in full...)

I got treated bad by him and now I cry almost everyday!

Q.   I need help Im a teenager and almost eveyday i cry and get upset about someone who i really like who ive done things with in the past he says he likes me on the day but he just f*cks me off the next day and hes admitted he has used me. Were really ...

A.   1 June 2007: Your question just shows that you are extremely upset and at this stage, you are vulnerable, at times in life we will feel that we can never move on and this is the end, but we all pull through. Why would you want to stay with someone who makes you ... (read in full...)

My husband says he is burnt out in our marriage...

Q.   I need some help with my marriage..To give you an idea of my relationship: Hubby is 37 I am 32..we have 2 girls 4, 9. We have been together for 11 years...married for 6. My husband recently told me he is burnt out on our marriage..the rest of ...

A.   29 May 2007: I am sorry to hear that you are in this position. But you need to understand a few things. Why has your husband suddenly decided that he is burnt up?whats changed? and you need to try and speak to him, and try and find out whats caused this, In many ... (read in full...)

Should I call him or just leave it?

Q.   I was talking to this guy for a while like for 6 months.I started to have feelings towards him.Then he started talking to my friends which got me mad.He also started to give me mixed signals which even got me more mad.He would call me at 2:30 am ...

A.   29 May 2007: Hi, i think you did the right thing, but thats my opinion. You need to understand that sometimes, we have to give up something we probably enjoy but we dont realise that its damaging us. The simple example is sugar, its sweet, but it does damage our ... (read in full...)

I am almost 15 and I think I love my best friends older brother.

Q.   I am almost 15 and I think I love my best friends older brother. I have known him since elementry school and even back then I really liked him, He is a freshman like me so at first when I became friends with his little sister it was kinda awkward ...

A.   29 May 2007: Hi, your at a stage in your life, were there is a lot of confusion. I can understand you have feelings for this boy, but i don't think you should determine how he feels for you, by his actions or by his sisters words.A lot of the time, females read ... (read in full...)

Why do men chicken out when it comes to the question of marriage?

Q.   Why do men chicken out when it comes to the question of marriage? Even if they are mid twenty?...

A.   29 May 2007: Marriage doesn't hold the same value as it did some time ago. Marriage means commitment, to only one lady/man. However in this day and age, where sex and lustful relations are on the go, who would really want to commit to just one woman?Peoples ... (read in full...)

He's pressuring me for sex! Break up now with him or later after exams are done?

Q.   I have a boyfriend, and weve been going out for nearly 3 months. Weve done sexual things, but not sex. We have nearly had sex, but got walked in Now when he tries, i back out, and ive decied that i dont want to, and i dont regret my decision. I a...

A.   29 May 2007: I think that many people mistake love and lust. If he really did love you, he would get pleasure in simply talking to you and being there for you. You are at an important stage in your life, and you should not mess it up for anyone, especially ... (read in full...)

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