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Should I tell them the truth about who the father of my unborn child is?

Q.   I think that i might be pregnant i have my boyfriend of a year that is not the father we just simply dont have sex anymore but am very much in love with, and i have another friend that i have been seeing for 2 months just for sex since my long term ...

A.   21 May 2008: I know i feel horrible about this whole thing i dont even know why i did it. i guess i got caught up in the moment and just couldnt stop. it was very selfish of me and very out of character. i am very depressed about the whole situation and stressed ... (read in full...)

Do you think he will ever marry me?

Q.   I just found out I am pregnant and me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. One month shy of a year. I want some kind of committment from him or else, I am moving at the end of our lease term in December of this year. He said he ...

A.   21 May 2008: We really need to talk! LOL i am going through the EXACT same situation except for my bf wont even move in with me because mommy moved in with him. i know that this is a hard time and situation and i think that you should tell him that if he wont at ... (read in full...)

Confused Mother and Wife...

Q.   I need some advice. I am a married 24 year old with 2 very young children. I got married at 21 and had my first child at 21. I made the decision to have children early because of medical problems and my doctor saying if I do not have children now I ...

A.   21 May 2008: your husband sounds like he is emotionally abusive, he should never tell you your going through a "stage" you arent 2 your an adult and have real feelings, suggest to him marriage counseling. if he says no then you must stay true to your feelings, ... (read in full...)

My husband walked out, what do I do?

Q.   Okay I just need some advice/pick me ups...I am 4 months preg with a 2 yr old and a 1yr old and the man if thats what u would call him thier Dad, my Sign.Other, supposed to be my Best Friend walked out the door to work one day and never came ...

A.   21 May 2008: THIS IS A TOUGH ONE! i know what your going through my ex husband did the same thing, it was hard because i was a stay at home mom and he just left me and turned off all the credit cards and froze the bank accounts. that being said i was fortunate ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to have a vibrator at 16?

Q.   I'm sixteen and I'm a virgin. I plan to stay a virgin for a long time. I'm writing this because I have simple question to ask. My mother doesn't want me to talk to boys and I've told her that I wouldn't Now the dating/sex age for my family is ...

A.   21 May 2008: NOPE your doing great! i think everyone should have a vibrator, they dont have diseses you can shut them off when you dont want them and you can put them in a drawer and move on with your next activity in the day and you can do it when you want to ... (read in full...)

I'm going to be a Dad, but she won't get back together

Q.   Hi there 6 weeks ago i found out i was going to be a dad, i was shocked at first but realised it was a special thing to happen. Then when we discussed it my partner did not want to live where we where at, she wanted me to move closer to her pa...

A.   21 May 2008: you mentioned you told her to get an abortion and she is probably still upset about that. She feels the baby even when she is a few weeks along they have a special bond and with you saying that she felt like you didnt want it so she left. its very ... (read in full...)

He didn't use a condom. Should I be worried about being pregnant?

Q.   My boyfriend and i just had sex a couple of days ago. He didn't use a condom. I have been having major cramps ever since. I can't buy a pregnancy test because my mom will know!! Should i be worried about being pregnant? ...

A.   21 May 2008: you probably need to talk to your mom about getting on birth control. you would be suprised at how cool moms can be because most of them have been in the same situations that you have. if it has only been a couple of days your mom can help you get ... (read in full...)

I let the love of my life slip through my hands.

Q.   I regret not moving out to South Africa to be with my girlfriend. I dithered so much that she eventually got fed up of waiting for me and met someone else. I'm totally devastated. I pray that she will forgive me and take me back as now I would sell ...

A.   21 May 2008: You should plan a trip out there! show her you are serious. women are hopeless romantics and if you show up in south africa at her door step she will see how much you love her and are willing to sacrifice for her. DONT SELL YOUR HOUSE YET! just make ... (read in full...)

Does having a child bring you closer to your partner?

Q.   if you hav a child from your partner do you become closer....

A.   21 May 2008: YES AND NO! if you are having a baby with him because you love him and you planned it then yes it will bring you closer even though you will probably not see eye to eye on all parenting issues it will make you closer. if you are having it by ... (read in full...)

I know I'm going to be criticised for this, but please! I'm VERY concerned about this pregnancy because of the family history of VERY large babies! I'm terrified!

Q.   I know people are prob going to criticise me for this post but here goes. I am pregnant with my first ever child but I am terrified and am even considering if to go through with the whole pregnancy. My husband family have a history of havin...

A.   20 May 2008: you will probably end up having a c-section if you are that small and the baby is that big. there are no sure fire ways to have small babys BUT i can tell you that just because someone else had a big baby in the family doesnt mean you will. Im sure ... (read in full...)

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