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What should I say or do to help him not be teased and to understand him more?

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Question - (5 January 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *annyD writes:

this guy at school acts like a girl and he dresses like a guy . people teases him and call him gay but i dont think they should. i dont know how to approach him asking is he gay or not and might offend him. i personally think he just enjoy acting like girl and he gets upset when they call him gay. i was thinking if he act like a normal guy maybe they will stop but he only makes it worse for himsself. So what should i say or do to help him not be teased and to understand him more?

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A female reader, Sensesfail101 United States +, writes (6 January 2011):

simple answer to this: befriend him.

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A male reader, JustinNki United States +, writes (6 January 2011):

JustinNki agony auntif he doesnt care about being teased, then who cares!

teenagers can be really mean,

i dont even know why but ppl teased me about being gay just cuz i hung out with girls and acting a little bit fem.

but i mean i was 13, i wasnt anywhere near being mature.

i think its all the process of growing and learning about how to handle situations, and yourself.

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A female reader, lija30 United States +, writes (6 January 2011):

lija30 agony auntJust become his best defense and be a friend to him because when people talk bad about you, you always need a friend for comfort. So just be that good friend that I know you are. But you can't change anybody, some people don't like when people are different from them so they bully them because of the difference. Don't become part of the problem become the solution and stand up for your fellow classmate. *good luck hun*

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