Troubled relationship has become perfect but should I trust him?
Q. Am the one that told u b4 that had fight with my bf we were 2gether 4 2 years we fought and he scared me with msgs and said bad words but know am back with him i 4gave him and know hes totally different hes calm gentle and truly romantic cn he ...
A. 1 January 2011: He can't change that fast. I think you should've went your separate ways. He could easily turn on you. Be careful ... (read in full...)
Why is she with me?
Q. Gonna try keep this short.Im 27, met my current gf whos 25, 4 years ago through her sister,who is also my work colleague,she gave me her phone number so we could chat on an IM chat service.We chatted for a month,i got to know she liked clubbing,took ...
A. 1 January 2011: She's with you because she really loves you. Maybe she realized that it was time for her to change her ways and raise her daughter right. Stay in that little girls life. She is gone need you. You may not be her real father but you can be like a ... (read in full...)
Found out boyfriend is on dating sites, what now?
Q. Been going out with my fella for 6 months thought things were going well, he is supposed to be coming to see me tomm night, my friend has just seen him sign up today for a dating site saying same old me back for another crack at it. if he turns up...
A. 1 January 2011: you confront him about it and ask him why he signed up for that. Don't get all serious with him. He seems like a cheater.... (read in full...)
People are spreading rumors about my fiance cheating!
Q. Other people are spreading rumors and accusing my fiance of cheating,They have also told him negative things about me. He said that he isn't cheating and it is causing a great deal of stress within the relationship. What do I do?...
A. 1 January 2011: Dont believe the rumors. Ask your fiance about them.If he says they aren't true then dont ay them any attention. And also pay attention to his actions. If he acts a way one day then starts changing his ways then thats when you start to get ... (read in full...)
HIs attitude has changed overnight and I don't know what I did!
Q. Hi I have been dating a man for a few months and everything was going really well. He complimented me and wanted to speak and spend time with me. We spent xmas together and I stayed at his (invited of course)Then all of a sudden on the Monday he...
A. 1 January 2011: Maybe he's dealing with a personal iisue. Try to find out if everything is ok with him.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has had over 30 plus sexual partners before me.
Q. I am 22 years old and been with the girl for almost 4 months. I love her and she loves me and wants to have my children and has talked about marriage before. Here's the tricky part. I have no history of my own. She was my first while she's been with ...
A. 1 January 2011: She's obviously still in her wild teenage ways. If she's doing all of that then she's really not the one for you. Another thing is she drinks alcohol until she can't stand thats not good. You need to find someone more responsible. If she wants to ... (read in full...)
I'd like a girlfriend but not sure how to get one
Q. I'm a 19 year old male and am single (always have been) . I would quite like a girlfriend now but I'm not sure how to get one. I have no problem talking to girls and I'm not shy. People say I have a good sense of humour. I haven't had the expe...
A. 1 January 2011: It's not hard to get a girl to like you. Just be yourself. keep on mengaling with girls. Find one that you really like then ask her out on a date.Then go from there and you should be good.... (read in full...)
Dumped on New Year's Eve!
Q. Dear cupid i just got dumped by my boyfriend on new years eve!!we would havee been together two years on the 8th.he broke up witth meh because he says i make no effort to see him..he lives in the next city over frm me and i just recently lost my car ...
A. 1 January 2011: It's ok. If he could't understand the situation that you were in then he doesn't deserve your heart. He's a total jerk for even saying that to you. I think you should move on to bigger and better things in your life.... (read in full...)
25 years married, 15 years having an affair, how do I leave my marriage?
Q. I have been married for twenty five years. I knew when I walked down isle that i shouldn't be. I have been having an affair for the past 15 years. I have not intimate relationship with my husband and haven't since my youngest child was 8 now 17. ...
A. 1 January 2011: you should tell your husband about the affair. you should have been divorced. You have to just tell your kids that mommy and daddy aren't in love anymore. ... (read in full...)
I'm running out of time to let him know how I feel. What should I do?
Q. ok i'll try to be brief here. theres this guy i fancy who's 18 years old but i'm only 16. first off if we ever did end up going out would it be wrong? anyway he's going back to college on wednesday, which means that if i exclude the newyear an...
A. 1 January 2011: If you really like him and he really likes you I think you should go for it.Try it out... (read in full...)
How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?
Q. How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...
A. 1 January 2011: if you just show your boyfriend that you really love him and only him and show him that you're faithful you'll be ok.... (read in full...)
What would you guys do in a no win situation like mine?
Q. Hey. Just after some advice. Do you think hiding things is ever ok? My boyfriend is a very jealous, posessive and sometimes paranoid person. From past experiences with him I now go put of my way to avoid confrontation and accusations from him. ...
A. 1 January 2011: No you shouldn't hide things from somebody you love. And you dont need to be with him if he can't trust you. If you don't have trust, you don't have nothing. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!
Q. Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...
A. 1 January 2011: It's ok to be afraid. if you boyfriend really loves you then he will do everything he could do to take care of his kids. Find an appropriate time to tell him. It's going to be ok.... (read in full...)
Have you advice for a 17year old who's never had a boyfriend??
Q. I'm 17, female and living in the UK. I know is sounds really lame, but I have never had a boyfriend and I've never kissed a boy either, (apart from playing kiss chase when I was about 8, which obviously doesn't count). Is there something wrong with ...
A. 1 January 2011: There's nothing wrong with you. you just haven't found the right guy who's right for you. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't be depressed, you will find that special person. Don't be a follower, be a leader. you should try to get to know that ... (read in full...)
Husband is great but he looks at teen porn
Q. So i am 40 weeks pregnant and just got married 2 months ago. My husband is great to me and we planned on having this baby. Problem is, he looks at teen porn. I caught him on the computer before so now he looks at it on his phone..The girls look ...
A. 1 January 2011: well first you need to confront him about it and he needs to get some help. Before things go wrong in your marriage.... (read in full...)
He's cheated twice and lies about doing drugs! Dump him?
Q. My boyfriend has been making me feel terrible lately. I feel as if I can no longer trust him. He cheated on my twice and lies about doing drugs. Well he didn't lie more like tell me he would quit for me then text me the next day saying I can't tell ...
A. 31 December 2010: Yes you should leave him. he doesn't really love you, because if he did he wouldn't have cheated on you and he would've stopped using drugs. Let him go. ... (read in full...)
I'm in my mid 40s, but my overbearing mother won't back off!
Q. I'm trying to figure out how to deal with my mother. Quite a bit of the following is venting, so you may want to skip to the question at the end. I'm in my mid 40s, but she still tries to tell me what to do constantly. There are many thing...
A. 31 December 2010: You just have to stop helping her so much. Your mom has to realize that nothing in this world is free. And that you have your own life. You have to help yourself first.... (read in full...)
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