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How does a woman know when a man is in love with her?

Q.   I have a question for a male. How does a woman know when a man is in love with her? Thank u. ...

A.   2 October 2009: I'm not a male, but here goes ... When a man gives the gift of his time. When he wants to be with her. She's not left wondering why he didn't call, or waiting by the phone, because chances are that he'll be right next to her. When he stick... (read in full...)

Is there hope for me?

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 11 years now. We have 3 beautiful children. Our marriage was a marriage made in heaven. Two years ago we got the internet and ever since then my husband spends hours online looking at other woman. Within the ...

A.   22 May 2009: It IS cheating when one partner in a marriage goes outside the marriage to get needs met that *should* be met within the marriage. Whether or not there is actually any physical sex involved does not matter. Your husband is more concerned about lo... (read in full...)

How can I force my girlfriend into dropping some weight?

Q.   Ive been dating my girlfriend off and on for two years. We are both in our 40's and she is a couple of years older than me and has two grown up kids. We get on really great and spend a lot of time together, although we don't live together. She is a...

A.   21 May 2009: So you think by dating others she will get jealous and be motivated to drop the weight out of some desperate attempt to hang on to you? How old did you say you were? If having a perfect body was a requirement in your relationship why didn't y... (read in full...)

Any advice on allergies?

Q.   This is a health question not a relationship question. I went to the doctor because I thought I had ear infections and tonsillitis, which I didn't I got diagnosed with hay fever or really really bad allergies that cause liquid behind my ears a...

A.   21 May 2009: Believe it or not, allergies can be improved dramatically by how you eat. To what extent are you willing to alter your eating habits to get yourself better? I used to suffer badly from allergies as a kid. I am over 50 now. My entire adult ... (read in full...)

He didn't try to kiss me at the end of our date... why?

Q.   I went on a blind date with a guy last night. We're both in our mid 20s. The date seemed to go pretty well. We talked and laughed, not really any awkward silences. It wasn't the best date I've been on, but it was fun and I would definitely go out ...

A.   21 May 2009: Geesh, please relax, and stop worrying about whether he kissed you and just be glad he contacted you afterwards. :) If he contacted you after the date he's still interested in you. Do you know how many women complain after a date, "We had a GR... (read in full...)

Heartbroken, confused and need advice

Q.   Okay, I need some help here and I don't know what to do. For the first time in my life, at 41 I have truly fallen in love. I wasn't looking and a mutual friend thought we would like each other. So 6 months ago I met this wonderful women. We ...

A.   21 May 2009: Above all, you have to stand up for yourself and not tolerate disrespectful behavior on her part. Do not try to be a convincer or a persuader, the more you do that, the more she'll think she'll be able to have her cake and eat it too. Don't... (read in full...)

How do I tell her that she needs help on her technique?

Q.   How do you tell your babymother that she needs help with giving head. Is there an easy way, and what do you tell her to do. Even though you know that she says just tell me anything, and you know it will hurt her feelings to where she might not do it ...

A.   21 May 2009: Start your message with what she is GOOD at, then say that whatever it is you don't like feels a little too intense for you. Then suggest trying something else. "I really like it when you ___. But ___ is just too intense for me. Would you be ... (read in full...)

I know I'm just using her.

Q.   alright so here it is this girl that goes my school has been flirting. She's alright. Anyway we were talking and somehow we got onto having sex, now we're talking about having sex with each other and I think we're going to do it. I dunno if ...

A.   20 May 2009: How would you like it if you really liked a girl but she just merely used you to get over some other flame? What if the sex blows up with some unintended consequences? Are you prepared to deal with that? ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to feel this way or am I weird????

Q.   Am I weird? Some girl at my school was caught giving head and it went round school, and when i saw her i got an errection, i kept picturing her giving it to me and i almost climaxed without even touching down there. She always has this really ...

A.   20 May 2009: You are a 16-17 year old male. Why would it be weird to get turned on by this girl?!? I think what you're feeling is natural and normal. I am old enough to be your mother, so I guess I would suggest to you that it's one thing to feel those fe... (read in full...)

My wife is talking and flirting with her first love.

Q.   I am a 43 year male who is married to a wonderful person. Found out that she has been emailing, chatting, probably talking to what I believe is a first love, the discussions she has are sexually (I miss you and would love you to touch me #@!$ on by ...

A.   20 May 2009: Good heavens, I can't believe a husband would put up with this! "Nothing meant by it?" Then WHY is she doing it?!? I am female and I say she is absolutely being unfaithful to you! There is nothing for you to be confused about here - she lik... (read in full...)

Old flame has made me feel a spark that is missing in my marriage...how can I work through this??

Q.   I've been married almost ten years. I have children with my spouse and have been very happy. Last week an old flame from high school contacted me. We had a very short relationship (puppy dog type love...petting, making out) my freshman year and ...

A.   20 May 2009: It sounds like your old flame is a selfish inconsiderate jerk. If he really cared for you he wouldn't be disrupting your life now telling you about the "chemistry" he feels for you and how it "doesn't bother him" that you're married. Instead ... (read in full...)

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